i don't know why, but there's always someone in my life hating on me, or there is always something that harasses me to the point where i don't have any choice to trip off of them. i don't deal with them well, because i think think haters study you to the point where they know just about how to get under your skin no matter what-and they will go to great lengths to bring you down, and sometimes its hard not to let them, because jealousy can make people act and be really mean and nasty and unsympathetic. sometimes its hard to ignore.
2007-02-21 15:11:53 · 12 answers · asked by Infinite 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
you give them love because peace and love is stronger than hate.The most efficient ways of doing this is giving a PeaceKiss and a PeaceHug. You can be rest assured that after thinking of you as an impulsive, insane, irrational person, those haters will leave you alone.
2007-02-21 15:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice that I can give you is to not let people bother you. I know it's easier said than done but as you get older you will get to a point where you won't even care because you should never change who you are because of people. Jealousy is nothing but envy and always remember that misery loves company. If these are people that you hang around or have to be around, then do like I do and "kill them with kindness." Flaunt what you have and who you are because life is too short.....ignore those haters and do you boo!
2007-02-21 15:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by free_spirit5230 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, counter hate with intelligence. There are many human flaws. All you need to do is find them, and learn the flaws of your enemy. Study their behavior; how biased are they? What opinions do they have on certain subjects? Do they lean certain directions in an argument? If you learn about what kind of attitude they have, you can counter their attitude and give them a taste of their own medicine.
Or, you could just ignore them, somehow finding yourself thinking that they know not what they do. But then, are they right, and do they know more, or are you right? You will never know. All you can do is assume you are better than they because you are mature enough to walk away when you feel like it.
2007-02-21 15:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is typical immature behavior on their part. I generally ignore them because I know that they are ignorant and childish. But I also know how difficult it is when they are in your face being critical. I usually just let them spew and end it with a "whatever" or "grow up" and walk away. Try to avoid that person altogether. You know you just don't need that drama in your life.
2007-02-21 15:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by Lila 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First: what are you doing to them? Man, you must have done some really nasty things to them if you brought them to the point where they'll do anything to get back at you!
Second: are you sure that it is not just paranoia?
Three: well, I really believe that, if anyone hates you, you are the one who must change. There were/are some people who almost hate me, I am sure about it, because I kind of tell people straight to their faces that they are stupid, when they deserve it, of course, but the fact that they hated/hate me never affected me because I knew that this would happen, anyway.
2007-02-21 15:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by mrquestion 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ignore is the only thing you can do. Reaction gives them more stuff to use. Try not going places they go, find a better crowd to hangout with. People who don't hate or encourage it.
2007-02-21 15:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... some people dislike me because I am quite different. When they say something toxic or hamful I can obsess about it and get depressed. But I am trying my hardest not to care about what other people think. And now I am getting better and better at that. In fact, today I am going to face my agoraphobia again and go shopping by myself :)
2016-03-29 06:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to idslamic teaching we must know why they are the heaters.If you have known its cause in your own, you must try to abolish the root cause so they will love you.
If its cause is in them you should remember them and suggest its changes.If you are afraid to say their short comings you must pray to God to change their behaviours.You must treat them with more care and more love.The haters are oppressed themselves so you must show and help them with full care and love.We hope at last they will be aware for their wrong attitudes.
2007-02-21 15:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trick is to not stoop to their level. If you do, then they have succeeded in getting you to hate back. Hatred only eats away at you and makes you bitter and unhappy. Yes, there are people who enjoy getting under your skin. My ex-husband is one of them. I choose to ignore him, no matter how difficult that is. When I do that, I deprive him of his fun.
2007-02-21 15:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some may be jealous of you or just dont like your looks. Try to ignore them.
2007-02-21 15:21:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋