My fiance and I gree apone everything exept this. I think it is fine. We have a child together and I don't want her to grow up with his belifes. How do I go about doing this?
2007-02-21 15:00:44 · 6 answers · asked by dumbblond 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
She'll grow up and choose her own beliefs.. don't worry about it. As long as you raise her to have her own opinion and not allow him to dominate her views, she'll be able to find her own beliefs. I am 100% for interracial relationships, my daughter is a product of one and so are all of my family.
2007-02-21 15:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by Annabella Stephens 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are in for a tough time. The truth is that unless you specifically teach your child otherwise, she will grow up with his beliefs. But, if you teach her that he is wrong, she could resent him for the way he thinks. If I were you, I would teach her love everyone regardless and not to worry about color. Make sure that your actions back that up. I am in an interracial relationship. The last guy I was with didn't like mixed dating as he called it. That is one reason I am no longer with him. I couldn't deal with someone thinking that they are better than another human being. And, he did think just that. He went on to state that anyone of a different race didn't have a soul. I do hope your fiance isn't that extreme. Perhaps you can sit down with her and talk about your views and explain why this is important to you. Explain that you do not want your daughter to grow up thinking like he does. Be honest.
Amanda
2007-02-21 23:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say to him that a black man said 'i believe that no black man, with any sense, should go to the middle-east to fight a war for white people', then see what he says.
2007-02-22 06:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, learn how to spell. Then the rest will follow in time.
2007-02-21 23:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by Ledge 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make him a bad person for his beliefs. You can't demand a person to think like you.
2007-02-21 23:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to share his beliefs. You have yours and he has his. It is very unlikely that either of you will change your mind. Good luck.
2007-02-21 23:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋