i have read magazines and researched it on the net. and i have spoken with my parents and my in-laws.. i have tried everything..it seems.... and no luck. i already have a nursery and its tearing me up every month when i start or get a negative...please help.. ill take all the advise i can get.
2007-02-21 14:58:42 · 11 answers · asked by missey_lil_phreek 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Have you tried going to the doctor? It can take up to a year with a normal couple but there is always the possibility that there is some hormonal or physical issue causing you not to conceive. Also are you having sex on the right dates? You didn't state if you were using ovulation tests or not, they help. Good Luck.
2007-02-21 15:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by tylw85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four months is not a very long time at all. It often takes a year, or more, for someone to get pregnant. And stressing about it can make it even harder-I'm sure that the empty nursery can't be good for your stress level.
Relax, take your prenatal vitamins, chart your cycle, use ovulation predictor kits and enjoy making love with your partner until it happens. If you're over 35, and you've been doing these things for six months, see your doctor. If you're under 35, and you do all these things, and it doesn't happen in a year, then see your doctor.
2007-02-21 23:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by Erika G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have a nursery prior to pregnancy that would tear any woman up seeing that room every day knowing she was not able to conceive at the moment. You say you have tried everything have you tried going to the Dr to see if you or your partner have fertility issues? I am the mother of a little girl who will be 14 next month and I tried for 10 yrs to conceive my second child who just turned 9 months! When the time is right it will happen just like it did for me stop trying so hard.
2007-02-21 23:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 months!!! Seriously most doctors will not even see you unless you have been TTC for at least 1 year if you are under 35 years old. 6 month if you are over thirty five. That nursery isn't doing you any good. It just adds new stress to your already stressful life. I have been "actively" TTC for 10 months and I haven't had protected sex in 3 years. Do you do the OPK's? Do you chart your temp's? Are you sure you are doing every thing right?
2007-02-21 23:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by Miranda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you need to stop putting so much stress on yourself. Having a nursery that sits empty can put to much pressure on you and stress can affect conception. I know how you feel, i have been trying for several month too with no luck and it kills me when I get my period every month but you really have to try to relax. Maybe take a break or a vacation. If this isn't possible try some relaxation techniques and try not to put so much pressure on yourself. Good Luck
2007-02-21 23:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs Adams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 months really isn't that long. I know when your TTC it can take forever, but it doesn't always happen in a snap. And stressing about it will only cause more harm then good. A healthy couple can take 6 months - a year to get pregnant.
2007-02-21 23:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Isabel*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl just a couple pointers...alot of females dont know...not sure how much you know about your body or the process of getting pregnant...Do you have normal cycles? When is your ovulation date? or are you ovulating? are you having sex when your ovulation date has arrived?? I think these are some of the main things to look for and wonder about...if your havin normal cycles and your know ur ovulating on time...maybe you should try seeing a doctor just to make sure your hormones are balenced out...Goodluck...if you need any other help email is mrsfornkohl@hotmail.com goodluck
2007-02-21 23:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie 4 months is nothing,try trying close to 2 years and counting,and trust me I have done everything there is to be pregnant and still nothing.So this last time I've gotten my period and my friend told me she was pregnant for second time I said to myself screw it,I'm done trying and driving myself crazy,signed up for yoga class,got two pairs of new swimsuit and I'm gonna go and have fun.I'm sick and tired of counting,crying,eating right,vitamins, herbal teas and so on I have such a long list of things that I've done that it wouldn't fit here,not to mention the exercise that we did in bed (I almost stand on my head just to make it stay there) and the long faces from my hubby,because girl he's tired too and he began to hate me and sex too.You have no idea what you getting yourself into,so try to relax,otherwise you will drive yourself crazy like I did.Wish you good luck and baby dust soon :-)
2007-02-22 01:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by kraska 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you charting your cycles? Do you know when you ovulate?
Try www.fertilityfriend.com
This will help you know when the best dates are for ttc.
2007-02-21 23:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i wouldn't worry i was you coz it took me 4mths to get preggy so i know how frustrated u are!
heres a secret get ya hubby to make u orgasm after he ejaculates inside you
i think that worked for me good luck
2007-02-21 23:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by aussiegirlslovecowboys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋