i have not talked or seen my dad ever in my life.yesterday i found him online and i talked to him he wants to met me and we live in different state.but i talked to his x wife be for and he has 6 kids and 3 x wives. i am very close to my mom and my grandma and they both got upset because i found him and when i meet him they dont want my daughter and wife around because of his history of prison and because he lied to me on the phone should i meet him i really would like to meet him and see what he looks like what should i do?
2007-02-21 14:44:38 · 5 answers · asked by daveandbriit05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is your father and no matter what he did in his life you can't change that fact. You have every right to meet him at least once. It doesn't mean you have to see him all the time but I would say yes to meeting him. But don't bring your daughter with you just a picture of her. Meet him in a public place and just have a nice conversation.
2007-02-21 14:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by dolphinnut798 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue your online discussions. Eventually call him on the phone and talk several times. You should have a better feel for what to do after that. He IS your father. If you do want to meet him face to face do so in a very public place so you are not uncomfortable. Follow your heart. It will tell you what to do.
2007-02-21 15:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A BIG YES! go and meet your father regardless of what he did or didn't do to your mom has nothing to do with you. Remember your mom is still angry at your dad so it's understandable why she has a problem with you two getting together.I'm sure she feel a little betrayed by you wanting to see him. Until you do this for yourself that emptiness won't go away. How long have you been curious about meeting your dad,just for that reason alone you need to go to meet him.It's something you have to do .
2007-02-21 17:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say fallow your heart and decide what you want to do. If your worried about your wife and child, meet him first and see how he acts and how you feel about letting your family meet him.
good luck.
2007-02-21 14:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say no just talk to him on the computer thats what i am doing so it really up to u i would saay no
2007-02-21 14:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋