is it just me? I love this man with all my heart but sometimes I feel like he is just making a damn fool out of me.... What should I do... I am so confused this is not the first time he has made me feel this way...
2007-02-21 14:23:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
treat you like you matter most. Don't worry about 'losing him'.
He is either with you or he isn't. If he is, with you, he will follow you wherever you decide you are going.
2007-02-21 14:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you sat down with him and discussed with him how you feel? Tell him why you feel this way.
When you are in a relationship, you have to have honesty and communication and if he isn't being honest or he isn't happy, he needs to respect you enough to let you know about it.
Even when the subject is not comfortable, you as adults should be able to sit down and discuss whatever it is, when it involves the both of you. If he isn't cheating on you, then he should help you find ways that would make you feel like you did when you dated. Make time for a date night twice a month or once a week. Try to find the romance in your marriage. When he comes home, make a scavenger hunt for a romantic evening with him one night. It takes two to keep the fires burning. I say some prayers for you and your husband. Hugs to you.
2007-02-21 22:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, if you love him all you heart, then why should you feel like he is cheating on you. But remember sometimes your feelings can be true too. At the same time perhaps over possessiveness and obssessiveness towards your husband can also lead you to this kind of trauma. I think you must be too free to always think about him. Try to accommodate yourself with something else so that you will not stress yourself thinking if your husband is being faithful to you or not? All the best.
2007-02-21 23:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just sit down and talk to him communication is a very important thing in a relationship if he is reluctant about talking about this nine times out of ten he is cheating on you,it sounds like you love him a lot and sometimes it's hard to let somebody you luv go but you gotta do what you gotta do *good luck with your relationship though!*
2007-02-21 22:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by Viol3t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u obviously married him for a reason: u love him! so if he is makiong u feel like hes cheating and making a fool out of you talk to him let him know how ur feeling and try 2 work it out! communication is key in a relationship dont go making accusations and without proof!
2007-02-21 22:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by ohiosfinestmami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reread this question....you know the truth in your heart...do you think that because you love him so much you dont want to hear the truth....even tho its right infront of you??? you know theres a possibility....if this isnt the first time....and you think somethings going on...follow your instincts....if you are in denial...you may need to catch him out and this will no doubt hurt....but will also help you come to rest within your mind....right now you just have questions and a doubt....find the answer and releive yourself of the burden...its not healthy huny....and if he is doing the dirty...kick his butt out!!! but just make sure you know the complete truth before you make decisions....
good luck huny....and i hope that whatever happens, happens for the best, may you have strength to cope with what ever the outcome :)
God Bless!
2007-02-21 22:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jia K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him? If not, do so when yall aren't doing anything....and don't go after him nagging or angry either. Be calm and stick to the subject.
If his actions aren't suspicious and you have no proof, then there's really no reason for you to be feeling that way. That's basically you being insecure.
2007-02-21 22:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a therapist and tell him/her what you think about your husband. Don't trust anything your husband says yet until you find out whats really going on. If he goes out without telling you, ask him where he went. Keep a watchful eye.
2007-02-21 22:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by Lovelygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he acting weird? 'Cause if that's the case, then he may be
cheating... Girl: Follow your instincts. Us women just know.
If he's cheating let him go. I'm pretty sure you can do better
without him. There are still good men out there. Go find one!!!
2007-02-21 22:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by lizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you judging him on past experiences??? Are you a person who has low self esteem and needs constant reassurance? If so you could be sabotageing a good relationship.
2007-02-21 22:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Rock Star Outlaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u asked him?? i mean when you guys are not fighting?? has his sexual habits changed?? i mean new things often?? how but his kiss? does his time sheet match the hours hesays he is working?? and does the hours match the money?? its little things like this that make me think. my married friend has HIV she has never cheated on her husband. dont guess know.
2007-02-21 22:36:13 · answer #11 · answered by angelswife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋