how do i get over my ex-boyfriend who just dumped me.?

Question

i now i'm not the best looking person in the world and it's really hard for me to get some one to like me and now that i am dumped my heart is broken.

Answer 1

Girl get yourself together he wasn't the best person for you. GOD has away of moving the trash out of your life. Get on your knees and ask Jesus to heal your heart. Think of yourself as a wonderful person that GOD has made. You're such a kind person the universe helped removing a bum.

Answer 2

Exercise, exercise! It removes stress and makes you look great. My friend got dumped and went on a health food kick and started running. Took classes in art and makeup and went from an ugly duckling to a georgeous lady.
That is what I need to do. When I was working out and dieting or just quit eating I had so many guys. But now I am kind of let me do my studies. But the point is. No one is ugly! They are just not trying to be beautiful. If you was a size 8, and bleech blond hair and gobs of makeup and a padded bra. The guys line up~!

Answer 3

Aww hun sorry to hear that that always hurts when somone dumps you. I wish there was somthing I could say to make you feel better but all I can tell you is to be strong,keep your head up,and you will find somone elese one day dont worry. There is no way to get over sombody it just takes time is all one day you will just be over that person outta no where. Just keep busy with friends and people you know really care about you they help the most during a time like this. Take care.

Answer 4

Its never easy to get over an ex, especially if you really cared about him, trust me i've been broken up with an ex for just over 2 years, and i still think about him at times, but it does get easier! You have to give it time and talk to friends and family if you have someone you can talk to! Try to move on and dont put yourself down, no one is perfect and you deserve to be happy! Enjoy life while you can, you only live once so dont ruin it!! LOVE LIFE! All the best xoxox

Answer 5

If you feel that you are not very good looking, you should probably work on that. I think a very large part of beauty comes from the inside. The way you think manifests itself on your face. Beautiful thoughts equal a beautiful face. Of course, you may want to learn a little bit about make up or how to do your hair. Try looking for books on that subject at your local library. Don't over-concern yourself with your outward appearance. Make sure you have high morals and expect the same from anyone who would date you.

Answer 6

That's the same problem for a lot of people in the world, just try not to be so upset. Instead don't even cry over him, he doesn't deserve it. In fact, he's the one that's missing out. So smile, become more confident, and wait for the right guy to come along.

Answer 7

who told you that you are not the best looking person in the world?

I believe everyone is beautiful and their beauty comes from the kind of person they are....

outer beauty is skin deep but your true beauty is your soul and the better person you are the more beautiful you look from inside and out :)

if i was you i would go out with my friends and party it up! dont go looking for guys straight away....if you go with the intention of getting a guy you wont have fun....go with the intention of letting your hair down...enjo being single again....eat icea cream and chocs and dont forget to go to the gym...helps spike your happy hormones!.....take care of yourself...go shopping and buy a new outfit...change your hair a little .....pamper yourself....you just never know whos watching and admiring you from afar.... :)

keep smilin....and let time heal your wound.,....but pls dont get depressed and cry over someone who isnt giving this another thought...its simply not worth it!

Answer 8

This is what I always do:


Getting over a boyfriend is never easy, especially if it was a serious, significant relationship. But it is always possible, if you really set your mind to it.
Steps

1. Clear everything out of your life that reminds you of him. Pictures, songs, clothing articles, other personal items - everything must go!
2. Commit completely to getting over him. If you allow yourself to have doubts, or be weak, it will drag on and on. Repeat over and over to yourself - I don't need him.
3. Get out and meet people. If possible, try to meet another special somene. Having a new man in your life is the best way to forget about someone. Not only will they keep you busy, they'll put in your mind all the good things your ex never did, or the bad things your ex did but your new boyfriend doesn't.
4. Hang out with your girlfriends as much as possible. They'll help you get through it, listen to you rant, keep your mind off things, and eat ice cream with you. Plus, you'll remember how much you like them all, and how fun they are.
5. Write 20 or more of your good qualities and keep reading them over and over, adding as you think of some. It's important to remember that you are a beautiful, amazing person and you will find love again.
6. Let time pass. The more it goes, the easier it will get. Time DOES heal all.
7. Just remember...there's a reason why he's out of your life! Be free!


Tips

* Try to avoid going to places where you and your ex used to go.
* Avoid the songs that remind you of him.
* Make a playlist with lots of angry songs on it - especially ones that remind you of annoying things your ex did. Whenever you feel nostalgic, listen to it!
* Concentrate on his weaknesses, both physical and personal. If he had ugly hairy hands, imagine them daily and think about how gross they were. If he was selfish, think about it often, saying things to yourself like "Man, *so and so* was so completely selfish...what a jerk. I"m so glad I don't have to put up with his egoistic, immature behavior anymore." You will feel like you dated a total loser.
* Do NOT contact him or let him contact you. You'll just go rushing back to square one. You might ask a girlfriend to help you stop talking to him, whether by reminding you or talking to you whenever you feel tempted. You can also write out long personal journal entries or letters (that you don't send) if you really feel like you need to get something off your mind.
* REMEMBER : Everyone has been through this & everyone gets through it. You might think you're alone, and it's too hard, but it will get easier and you will be happier.
* Expand your social network.
* If your conversations with him have made you uncomfortable, talk on email and save the conversation. Reading over the hurtful comments he has made will help you remember why you need to get rid of this guy.


Warnings

* If your new man is a 'rebounder', try not to hurt them too much, especially if they've fallen hard for you. If/when, you're tired of them, and your self-esteem is boosted, let them down easy. Don't make them work too hard to get over you!
* While anger is a natural and healthy part of the process, don't allow it to consume you, and be a new way of obsessing over your ex. You don't want to stay bitter forever.
* Your girlfriends will be willing to hear all about it at first, but no one likes to hear someone complain forever. After a few days, they'll be ready to move on, even if you aren't, and you have to be considerate. Don't take this personally!


Things You'll Need

* Friends
* Determination
* Time

Answer 9

to be honest time heals all wounds. i know how you feel i am going through the same thing. and if that guy can not see you for who you are he was a jerk and he is not worth your time. Just hang out with friends and try not to think about him. i know it is easier said than done.

Answer 10

Give yourself some time. Its his loss. Just wait and see once you start feeling better your self esteem will be better. Right now you feel bad and causes all kinds of other feelings.