How should I deal with my new step dad?

Question

My mom just married a perv.... and I hate him. What should I do about it?

Answer 1

be honest with your mom. Try to tell her exactly how you feel without being negative or insulting. In other words try to be mature, if your mother is worth a (*@#$# she will try to resolve the problem.

No woman should ever put a man before her kids. You can tell her I said that. Also, if the jackass keeps it up, just kick him in the balls.

Answer 2

Why do you say he's a "perv"? Has he done something to cause you alarm or do you just not care for him? If he has done something to you you can take official steps right away. If you are only using that as an excuse to make some sort of a point you will only make things worse.
I "married into" a family when my step-kids were 9 and 11. Their father had abandoned the family. I learned right away that a step-parent is really only a polite guest in normal circumstances. We all grew up together and we are all very close now. My kids call me dad and my grand-kids truly are "mine".
If there is nothing abusive going on I would suggest you give him a chance. If he truly is abusive then turn him in, end of story.

Answer 3

What do you mean by he is a Perv? Has he said or done something to you? If he has...talk to someone ASAP! If you just don't like the way he acts or talks....is it possible that you could move in with your other Dad? Maybe talk to him about how you feel about your Moms new hubby...see what he says.
Best of luck....and hang in there kido *S*

Answer 4

you need to talk to your mom and explain to her exactly how you feel about your step-dad.. and try not to allow your emotions to take control over your thoughts about the situation..

when i was younger i had to deal with the struggle of having both a step-mother and father that at first i really did not care for.. but i eventually came to see them as great people to have in my life

im not saying that your step dad isn't actually a perv.. i hope he's not for your sake, but i just don't know him or you.. all im saying is that how i saw my step-dad at first is not how i saw him later in life

good luck to you.. thats a tough situation to be in

Answer 5

Tell your mother. Does she choose him over you? Call your father and live with him. Is he really a perv or are you just saying that to hurt your mom? I am a stepdad and it took me many years of trying to bond with my stepkids. Good luck

Answer 6

Tell your mom. Never withold any secrets from people around you. As much as possible, avoid being alone with him even for just few minutes. If ever he did any nasty things to you, report it immediately to the police. Don't be afraid of him. Do everything you can to protect yourself like locking your room before going to bed.

Answer 7

if hes really a perv and being inappropriate tell your mom if she dosnt believe you go to the police asap

Answer 8

You can accept him as a new member in your family. Give him a chance to prove himself you should have a respect about your mother decision. Maybe the new family brings you happiness
Wishing the best for you

Answer 9

Call Child Protection Services and tell them the awful things that you're seeing. But dont lie cause it could back fire on you and get you into tons of trouble. Good Luck.

Answer 10

Its natural to dislike a new step parent. You don't have to like them just try to get along for your mothers sake. Is perv a label or has he really done something untoward? If he has really done something perverted towards you tell every adult you know.