I have a friend, and we have been friends for a long time. She's always been nice, until now. Right now she loves to be mean to people and is all proud of her come-backs. I think she wants me to praise her, but I don't...now she tells me i'm lazy and boring. But she can also be nice. We just moved schools together she my main friend there.......Do i stay friends with her or not?
2007-02-21 14:01:37 · 17 answers · asked by GoGetEmTiger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well considering your even thinking about this, yall are not friends, so yea...
2007-02-21 14:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about the way she has been acting latley and let her know it bothers you a lot. If she keep treating you bad still then find a new friend no one needs a friend who is going to be mean all the time so in that case ditch her. I hope it works out for you.
2007-02-21 22:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by Amy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan A; ditch her. Why? I ditched a friend today & it went really well. So, I didn't have to be mean...but before I tell you that, I thought I'd tell you how I met them. I met Brittney this year; she's my new friend of the year. She thinks that no matter what I will be her friend 'just' because I'm Vietnamese, and so is she; it doesn't matter. This girl always acts 'all that' and 'popular' so she really annoys us. Today @ the field trip she wore these huge sunglasses, the white ones, Jessica Simpson style, and was acting very.... 'popular' and a stinky 'popular' and really weird. I am popular, but I'm popular because I'm nice- not because I'm a stinking pretty awesome girl. If you want to say, you can say "you're cute" but then I don't start bragging.. Negia; I met her in Kindergarten! She agrees with everything about Britt ---- So far. She's awesome & cute, so I say that she's a cool girl. She also is very loyal.... the problem;
in the last 3 days, she's been saying stuff like "OMG! like, you should stop saying like, because it's really annoying" and then that was not right because she says like too much.......
Day #1: Negia & I tell her "well, why don't you just try yourself to stop saying 'like'?!" She was very unhappy.
Day #2: She claims she knows 'everything' about Hannah Montana... a fan of ours.
Day #3: We say "Well, if you know so much, can you sing her songs?!" [[LOL, i can, and i want to see the truth.]] She's like "DUH! Yeah.... why?!" And then I say "Why don't you sing best os both worlds?" And she starts goofing up...hahaa! I quiz her and she knows nothing. I ask Negia is she can correct 'us' and she does, and Brittney says "Hey! Can I private talk with you? I have a secret flip we can do, and we'll develop it later." I say like... "okay?!" And she takes me behind the bench and she's like "Hey! Negia doesn't know how to sing, huh?! She whines like a baby!" I'm like "okay."
Day #4: I tell negia everything and Britt Britt gets 'silent treatment' She's hanging out with the girls she use to hate; nikki and amanda!
It's a sign that she is feeling bad, && at P.E. She walked by us really mad...like she wanted us to say 'sorry!' But we don't and Negia & I re~claim BFF...
---> That's your reason....<---
TO ditch her!
2007-02-21 22:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by Sunset :]] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you are happy with her friendship and can tolerate the ups and downs, keep her. However, if she abuses you verbally to the point that you cannot tolerate it any longer. Ditch her. If she is a true friend, you may find a gentle approach to saving the friendship. If you think she's worth it. And you do if you're considering keeping the friendship. Heart to heart with her. Sometimes we need a reality check and who better than a friend? If she's your real friend, she will appreciate it. If not, you're saving yourself grief.
2007-02-21 22:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by ☽☮★♥ Alphα Fєmmє Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD FRIENDS R HARD 2 FIND!
i said "good friends" i say let her know that she is being rude and nasty and that u dont like it. that you are not into negativity if she is your "true" friend she will not judge you or stab you with silly sayings or names she will just accept it and understand that you r u and she is herself. when she gets like this tell her you have to go if u r on the phone and if u r in person make a phone call soon she will get the pic and stop aside from u letting her know outright that u dont like it.
2007-02-21 22:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by angelswife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like a very nice person. Remember that even though it may be wrong, you are judged by the company you keep. Her bad actions may reflect back on you...
I'd say it's time to find some new friends.
2007-02-21 22:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by OffLiCute 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends how many other friends u have. if u have a ton of really great friends, maybe its time to ditch. wait a while tho because it could just be something shes going through.my friend like to pull my hair (its weird) and i cant take it! no matter how mad she gets, i stick up for myself. i hope this helps.
2007-02-21 22:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by Haley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys should stay friends. Just say plez stop being rude than she's going to lose out on you. Then if she is really ur friend she'll stop and be a better friend. :)
2007-02-21 22:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay friends with her- put her in check. give her a talk about the way she has been changing and acting. that you dont like it and if she doesnt stop acting liek a total ***** suggest that you guys no longer be friends.
2007-02-21 22:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by xkathiee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HER... why would you stay with someone who says you are lazy and boring? Have some self respect and dump this bytch.
2007-02-21 22:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch her. i no it might not be easy, but if she's being a ***** to other ppl that might not be a good way to make friends at skool u no? i mean it's not easy but ull pull through!
2007-02-21 22:05:25 · answer #11 · answered by puppyuvr72093 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋