my husband has a "second job" that he swears it's nothing bad... but i have seen him with only 100 dollar bills recently.... he calls his job .....gigs.... he does this job at night and usually he finishes at 3am or later..... and it's not everyday..... the other day someone calls my house saying they wanted to speak to my husband and i asked who it was and he told me he was my husband new landlord... the landlord told me my husband just bought a new office!!! when i asked my husband about it he said it wasn't his, he told me that his friend asked him to put the place under his name because of creidt issues... i don't believe that... but however i left it at that..... i am soooo stressed out i feel like my husband is doning something behind my back!!! what do you think is going on.... by the way my husband is a very smart man he works in computers and has a great salary.... i don't understand whats going on with him....
2007-02-21 14:00:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It does seem strange that he will not tell you what the new job is....unless he has always kept things from you. I would have someone fallow him...see what he is doing.
2007-02-21 14:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you try and follow him with the help of a friend who does not know him and see where he goes. Then things might seem more clear from there on. Hiring a private detective may be an expensive affair. I am not too much in favor of that as I feel it is too intrusive.
Please do not stress over it, if you are unsuccessful in finding out, talk to him and tell him that if he does not disclose what is happening, then you may have to approach the police for your safety .
I was just wondering "gigs" may be a shortform for "gigolo's"??
2007-02-21 22:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by SP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of many jobs that bring home $100 bills and keep nocurnal hours, and the ones I do know of don't require an office, hint hint.
2007-02-21 22:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him where this " new office " is located?
Be careful..lots of cash could mean drugs...
keep your eyes open and check out the pockets in his coats and look in drawers for information. Check out his eyes when he returns.. If you discover he is...check out fast and get a lawyer ..take the evidence with you to the lawyer..
2007-02-21 22:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by pitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not for snooping ... but this sounds like an exception. Get an investigator. This situation doesn't pass the "smell test".
2007-02-21 22:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, make your own money-write a book about his secret life...
2007-02-21 22:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by sugardaddysgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a private investagater
2007-02-21 22:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a private detective.
2007-02-21 22:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is opening up his own computer shop or something and just didn't want to tell you about it
2007-02-21 22:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL he is operating a porn site, hey can we get passes for free....please.
2007-02-21 22:07:02 · answer #10 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋