My first time going into a chat room and i meet a girl, we chat for a few weeks and she is from the same city as me (chicago). we both started to feel a connection, our chatting conversation started to turn into phone conversation that lasted up to 8 hours. i was feeling like i was falling in love with a girl i never seen in person. I finally did fall in love, and she did to, we fell in love, i asked her out but still, we never met or saw each other in person, we exchanged pics but thats it. and i knew a few causins of hers from school but i never met her. her mom moved her to california and she'll be coming back this summer, the thing is we still together, we are still boy friend and girl friend. our relationship is great, its beautiful, we get butterflies wen ever we tell each other that we love one another. it feels beautiful. our relation ship has lasted 2 yrs and yet i still havnt seen her in person. wat do you think?
2007-02-21 14:00:16 · 11 answers · asked by g_ramirezjr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you now have 2 choices:
1.If you are brave enough to face the situation like she is really ugly or old etc...and you strongly believe in your love,you should let her know and try to meet her anyway.Make your love come true right now!
2.If you are afraid of somethings,you should keep the relationship like it used to be. A suitable girl in real life will be the key of your life.
That's just my opinion.Good luck!
2007-02-21 14:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by lovely_idiot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wonder if the reason she refused to meet u in person is because she sent u a pic of someone other than herself.
I dont know how i would feel. But one thing for sure, u guys have connected mentally. thats great to do that first. I just hope she is who she says she is for your sake. That would suck to have such a wonderful relationship and have been deceived for two years.
Hope it all works out though.
Good luck.
2007-02-21 14:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I htink this is the must beautiful thing I ever heard because you don't really know her or she knowes you it is something that you do not see often the thing is that the connection is so strong that I beleive no matter the obstacles you'll end up meetingn and your love will be stronger I think this is great I' m very happy for the two of you good luck
2007-02-21 14:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by Johanne L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first, ok sounds like a guy or woman who does not desire to be in a actual courting, and that's his fault. ok positioned the courting in possibility, no longer you. i do no longer think of it fairly is your fault, and if M is your chum, you probably did the main suitable concern by potential of telling her approximately ok and P. lower back, i do no longer think of ok incredibly cares approximately M, so of direction he does no longer do something. If ok replaced into nevertheless relationship M on a similar time as he replaced into with P, then he's a entire loser besides, and M in all hazard merits extra effectual. If I have been M, i might ruin it off with ok. i'm specific there's a stunning S available who will manage her a lot extra effectual than ok did.
2016-10-16 05:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by lipton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I really don't have any advice for you, except you gotta meet his girl and bring your relationship to the real world. Cyber space is great for chatting it up and being whoever the hell you wanna be, but it takes dealing with real life to have a real relationship.
Good luck to you!
Oh yeah, and if(okay...WHEN) you do meet, please bring an adult along!
2007-02-28 04:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by ldlivengood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to meet in person. It sounds like you are fairly young. Maybe this is your first "relationship"? Communication and connection are very important to any relationship, and it sounds like you've accomplished that, so I think you need to take it to the next level, and MEET!
2007-02-21 14:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by TootsFL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how many arguments did u have? do u know how she may react to your touch? what if u don't click as a couple when u live toeghether? a lot of ifs and the thing is u don't know one anothers on and offs... I say good luck... and i hope i'm wrong
2007-02-27 19:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by booghynson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to get out into the real world and meet a real girl. i think you need to leave the computer alone. try chatting with real people.
2007-02-21 14:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wait for her to come to you. go to her. get her adress in cali and take a flight to see her. what are you waiting for man? are you serious? 2 years.. thats crazy. your crazy. do you not want to see her that bad or something? wheres your kisses dude? 2 years? wooaaahh go gett herrrr. =D
goodluck.
2007-02-21 14:15:47 · answer #9 · answered by xkathiee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both of you are wacked.
2007-02-21 14:04:02 · answer #10 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋