if my mom is always mad at me what should i do?

Question

always

Answer 1

speak with her about it, she has some form of resentment toward you.
maybe ask another relative like aunt or uncle to be a mediator

Answer 2

This is hard to answer because you didn't give an example of what she is mad about. Maybe if she's mad all the time it may not have anything to do with you, she could be mad at/about something else and taking it out on you. Or maybe she's in a bad mood and that is all. Sit down and talk quietly to her at a time when she isn't acting mad and just ask her what the problem is. Be ready to listen, do not speak immediately just listen. Then address what ever the problem is calmly. Sometimes us moms don't act right either it could just be one of those days and she will say she is sorry, give her a chance to explain and it will be ok.

Answer 3

I was told that all teenagers are supose to hate their parents.
It is because they are starting to say I am an adult and then you notice your parents are not perfect. Your own self is becoming a person. Then your mean to them and they are use to having complete control over your every action. Don't run in the street!
Don't eat food off the floor! Like that!
They say be home by 10 pm and you show up when you get tiried. They trip out! They say do your homework but your friend comes over and talking about boys seems more important.
You don't know why they are mad and they don't know why you don't mind. Talk to your Grandma! They know all about that kind of stuff. She says it is just normal.
You have to be careful parents of teenagers do a lot of tripping.
so tell them where your going and coming so they will chill out!
It is easier than listening to the lectures about your going to get pregnant. They haven't figured out that it is possible to have sex during the day and before 10pm. That you don't go out to rob banks. And usually you and your friends are just talking.

Answer 4

I know it may seems as if you cant do anything right in her eyes...that no matter what you do she is going to go off......its probably not about you.......she's probably not even mad at you....you just happen to be there......it sucks I know.....but give her time...then try to talk with her..... find out whats going on with her if you can ....if your dads around talk to him......or maybe one of her siblings....then you guys talk it out.....and don't think for one minute that she doesn't love you... she's just going through a bad time right now....and you don't keep what you are feeling....locked up talk with someone.....and hang in there ....things will get better......just for asking the question you sound like a good kid....

Answer 5

What does she say or do? Or what is it you say or do? If it is as bad as you say, before she yells at you, ask her whats wrong, that you noticed she looks mad and can you help? Maybe she will open up or maybe not. What have you got to lose at this point

Answer 6

Smile more often and offer encouragement
offer to talk about what may be bothering her.
You two should take some time to be together.
and she probably won't stay mad you for long.

Answer 7

you should take time and sit down with your mom to talk about what is happening. just tell her in a calm toned voice that you want to talk and fix whats bothering her. it may not even be you. it make be something else. just take time and talk to her. good luck.

Answer 8

Ask her why she's mad at you.

If she gives you a good reason, then work on changing it.

If she has no answer, then know that it is her and not you (and she shouldn't take her problems out on you)


I am sorry that you have to go through that.

Answer 9

not enough info stop doing what she gets mad about

Answer 10

Depends...what are you doing to make her so mad?