My sis is more of an living in now and she has out stated her welcome I've told her many time she got to leave. but every time I tell her it seems like a joke to her. Then on top of it she just had a new born and think I'm the babysitter. Help please with other sugestions beside me telling her to leave.
2007-02-21 13:49:26 · 7 answers · asked by Bootylicious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thats a tough one. first don't be available to babysit. tell her you have plans even if you have to go to a movie or library or just for a walk. Second, do not buy any food for the house. next do no housework and if all else fails find her her own apartment. thats what i had to do. Once you do that, say here is a new place for you, I cant have you living here anymore, it is hurting our relationship. I love you to much for that to happen. Where are your parents. why aren't they helping. Where is the babys father, why isnt he helping. Tell her you cant handle it. Poor baby. does she even want the baby. Sounds like she may think of adoption. she sounds like she cant take care of herself, let alone a baby. good luck.
2007-02-21 14:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by dune nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave a note where she'll read it. Tell her she has so many days till she has to be out. Unless she gives you money, no more babysitting. If that still don't work, change the locks on the door. That will let her know your serious. JUST SAY NO!
2007-02-21 13:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by ratfart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your family yes you gave her a place to live and put food in her belly and let her use your appliances and water. And she shouldnt of disrespected you after what you have done for her. But its your house and if you say hit the road tell her to get out. Help to find a place she can afford and help her pack. Enough is enough! You need to let her know its not a joke and she should take it seriously let her know your reasonsing for wanting her to move out.
2007-02-21 13:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by hotmoma1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is it your place? If it is, just tell them they have to get out and if your sister thinks it's a joke ... tell her it is no joke. Set a date, put it in writing, and if the date comes and she isn't out ... call the police.
2007-02-21 13:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd love to give you other suggestions, but there aren't any! The only thing you can do is put her and her new kid out! Let her come home from work (she *DOES* work, right?) to find her stuff on the porch.
2007-02-21 13:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no other way. Refuse to babysit if that is what you want. Give her a time limit (in writing) for her to move out and stick to it.
2007-02-21 14:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel you on that... my hubby's mom is really or trying to be very dependent on us and she cant work cuz she is on disability, but get this she smokes and does drugs with that money and never has money for herself and then have the nerve to call and ask for money?? i told him he needs to tell her. he always gots this sad look on his face when i bring that up. she is suposedly homeless but i told him thats her fault and she dont do anything, she doesnt contribute to alot things so thats why she got put out.. but he doesnt wanna believe that! put her out.. i kno she kin-folk but you cant let some1 mooch off you and expect to not get anything back..
2007-02-21 14:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋