is this normal? ive been with him since i was a teen and now i feel board with him but i love him alot. what the hecks my problem
2007-02-21 13:45:30 · 7 answers · asked by L.A. WOMAN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we still have a sex life and hes happy with it i do evorything for him and to him,(ha ha)its just me and he has no clue.
2007-02-21 13:55:05 · update #1
How about you share these feelings with him, and try and do something to reinvigorate your marriage?
2007-02-21 13:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is you expect to feel like you did when you first met, and as a relationship evolves these feelings evolve too. You will eventually get too bored and search for that fiery feeling with someone else, but the flaw with that is those feelings will go away too, and you will wind up in the same situation you are in now. Now is the time to see what you are made of, to see if you are woman enough to deal with this issue and move on in a positive way. What the heck is your problem??? You already know what the heck your problem is, you knew before you asked this question, you knew last week. You're running from your problem because deep down inside you don't want to deal with it.
2007-02-21 14:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, you haven't experienced anyone different. Now you're in the marriage so if you don't have permission to seek attention elsewhere you are stuck with him. There's nothing wrong with you. You just have let yourself fall into a rut. You had better find a way to spice things up quick or your man will find that spark elsewhere.
2007-02-21 13:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to fall in love all over with him again.
Do the things that brought you together to begin with.
Being bored is a choice made by you. Choose a better way to be.
2007-02-21 13:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bored, period. Not with him, with yourself. Stop putting the blame on him. You say you love him, then get excited and passionate about what you like and do it and maybe he will start to do something too. If you have somebody you love and loves you then you owe it to yourself to try as hard as you can to make it work. Do you realize how many people would like to be in your shoes.
2007-02-21 13:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U need to add some spice to ur marriage. But dont rely on him to do it. U r as responsible as he is for it. He may be bored too.
So get ur thinkin cap on, and start bringin back that lovin feelin!
Good luck to u
2007-02-21 13:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what to say since I'm only 17 but I would probably just spice things up a little and do more things together.
2007-02-21 14:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by Livin it 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋