2007-02-21 13:45:14 · 8 answers · asked by shell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you don't "water your flowers" girlfriend...your garden won't grow. If your man doesn't mantainence his vehicle, it's going to break down on him...
Get the picture?
This won't change with a new relationship either. EVERY relationship takes "watering" for it to continue to be beautiful and bloom. Even your relationship with your own mother...(or someone else that you think that you "automatically" love)
What are you doing in those relationships that you're (or your husband both) not doing in yours? I'll bet you will find that you show much more respect, patience, etc.. and that means that you're "watering" those relationships.... Right? Think about it...
It only deteriorates when you allow it to....
AND YES, there will be many times in your lives together that it'll feel like it's starting to wilt...so get off your butt and get busy watering that garden!! When you make a diliberate habit of taking care of it, you won't even have to feel it beginning to wilt.
2007-02-21 14:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by ~Me~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did ! My First husband only to find that he wanted the party life not me and his Children, for Drugs, Drinking, and other Women took the place of the Kids and me in his Life. It was great in the beginning then his sister came along and got him into the drugs and it went down hill from there I missed him for along time after wards or should I say the way he was not the way he turned into and there's still day's now that i miss the way my ex husband was for the old him was Romantic, Kind, Generous, thoughtful, Caring and very Loving to me and his Baby Girl he never did get to meet his baby boy and I wish he could have for our son is defiantly like his father (the good parts) But life goes on and so have I.
2007-02-21 13:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that anyone that has been divorced has been there. When you marry someone you think that this is the person that you will spend the rest of your life loving..and then after the divorce you wonder why or what happen to the relationship that you once had...I think we have all been there with any relationship not just marriages.
2007-02-21 14:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i did, at first he seemed to want the same things as me, but as time went on i realized we were just too different. he got into drugs, and an affair with another druggie, so relationships aren't always what we see when we decide to marry them. i think each person goes in to it, hiding certain things about themselves, and sooner or later the true self comes out.
2007-02-21 22:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be an attraction or sexual and sometimes a person can jump into a marriage to quick and not know the person very well.Both parties have to want to make the marriage work.
2007-02-21 13:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by beverly c 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have, and the end result hurts so bad. Especially if you love them and they don't love you back as much.
2007-02-21 14:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by Shanes_A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i still think we are right for each other but our relationshipo is not in its best time right know but thats what marriage is for bad and for worst and ect ect
2007-02-21 13:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by user 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure most everyone of us that has been divorced thought that to begin with......
2007-02-21 13:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by salemgirl1972 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋