My wife now says she is bisexual. She is also bipolar. She has found a lover on the net from India. She now plans to have her move over to live near us. My wife says that she loves me first and wants me, but she attracted and loves this woman. My wife has never had any lesbian sex before. This woman seems to be a very loving and caring person and I have even developed a freindship with her. I am confused. I want my wife to be happy, but I am also think it is wrong to have her cake and eat it too. What od you think?
2007-02-21 13:15:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think your wife's problem is that she is bipolar, not bisexual. She needs to get stabilized on some meds and then moving to India won't seem like such a great plan.
2007-02-21 13:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she can't be bisexual if she has not been active with a woman. She is bicurious instead. As far as her being bipolar, I think that you both to attend therapy to really find out what is going on in her head. As far as this woman in India, sounds kinda shaky if you asked me. Remember, the Internet is the cyber world and you should NOT believe in all that you see and hear. Do some investigation on this woman.... or get a divorce!
2007-02-21 21:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by nika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may not be bisexual or even understand it but the one thing i know is, bisexual, lesbian or straight, having 2 lovers is cheating, even for a bisexual. What would she say if you decide you want to have a mistress on the side? Same difference. Just because it is a different gender doesn't mean she is not cheating. Bisexuals can be with females or males, it does not mean being with both at the same time
2007-02-21 21:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by uz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I think marriage counseling is the way to go. Too many issues and too many outcomes. Counseling shouldn't be viewed as a negative experience but assistance in working through difficult situations.
2007-02-21 21:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by Not Your Muse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope it's not on your dime! It's expensive to move over a person to live with you! If you don't agree with this, you need to tell her. There are just somethings people shouldn't do! One is insisting on breaking monogamy in a marriage. (See gay people DO care about the sanctity of marriage)
2007-02-21 22:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by chaseunchase 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being bisexual doesn't mean that the normal rules don't apply. If you aren't comfortable with the situation, don't be afraid to tell your wife. If she shows no respect for you, perhaps you should leave.
2007-02-21 21:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your confused you wife is the one confused with all due respect. She is bipolar and i don't know much about the disease but i do know that it makes people act out of character. You need to get her the PROFESSIONAL help that she needs.
2007-02-21 21:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by qdeezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u get to get in on this cake .. isnt that what ur thinking ...if u want to do the right thing in gods eyes then u know what that is to ...
2007-02-21 21:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong and will probaly leave to divorce, but if she can have affair's, why can't you?
2007-02-21 21:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by hoobzor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember you said bipolar? 'nuff said...
2007-02-21 21:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by bl00dsuckr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋