I am starting to get relly relly depressed!!?

Question

Ok I am getting relly pissed because these girls at one of my old schools keep talking bout me! I mean ya i know that they're jealous and all but I mean hey! I went to that school A YEAR AGO! What should I do I hate to say this but it is bringing my self esteem down. I don't know what to do! Am I really actually ugly though? I thought I was kinda normal not exactly ugly. Here's a pic of me. www.myspace.com/eastside chic58 (But take that space out though) Am I really that ugly? Cause i'm getting really depressed. please help me.

Answer 1

Some people feel the need to attack other; and some are very successful at this, because they pinpoint your insecurities and play with that. This just means that they themselves are insecure. You are definitely not ugly. You are kind of pretty actually. It has been in your mind the whole time. You let them get to you. Yes, life is funny sometimes.

Answer 2

I looked at the myspace page 'cause I was curious. The pic is too dark, can't see.
Who cares though? If you were comfortable before, you need to let go and ignore the girls! It's hard when a group gangs up on you, I know, but you'll make new friends soon and get back to your old self! Remember, they can only hurt you if you let them.

Answer 3

I think you are confusing depression with feeling hurt. You are pretty upset about girls saying bad things about you. Well, who cares? If your feelings of well-being depend on a bunch of girls and their gossip or opinions, then they have more power over you than is healthy.
Look at yourself - do you think you are ugly? Are you fairly well-groomed? Do you spend time on your looks and are YOU satisfied with the way you dress? Then relax. They only have as much conrol over your feelings of hurt as you GIVE them. So stop giving them control. Live your life as the normal happy kid you should be.

Answer 4

you look better than 3/4 of the girls in my school.