My 2nd best friend(used to be first) is now currently being rude to me.We have known each other for five years now,and he has been a good friend. All until now, he has been getting me blamed for all the things he does. Not only that,but he has dissed me and my best friend way too many times.I want to know how to get rid of him without him going psycho-killer crazy on me. I want to let go of him very easily.I don't want to hurt his feelings,but I want to get rid of him very badly. Plz help this is a very difficult decision for me,and it is hard to let him go.Although it is for the best, I don't want him to hate me for the rest of his life. Plz do help me out here.
2007-02-21 13:10:12 · 4 answers · asked by blazer b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he has been a good freind to me, and he has been through all my darkest moments.The problem is he is at my school, and always sits at my table. I really want to get him away. Lately he has just been a bad influence. =(
2007-02-21 13:24:56 · update #1
The only thing you can do is be honest. Don't keep him as a friend if you don't want to be one anymore. As far as letting him down easy,your best bet is to be direct but make sure you tell him why you feel this way. In the long run,things will be better for the both of you.
2007-02-21 13:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by David F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with answer No. 1. Just keep your distance from him. Don't answer phone calls, at least not right away. Wait a few days maybe, and then answer them/call him back, but don't offer an apology to him. Eventually he will either take the hint, or begin to forget about you. And yes, by all means, try to remember all the bad things he has done to you.
2007-02-21 13:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by knownothing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe since he used to be your best friend, you should talk to him and find out why he is doing the things he does. It may be because he feels like you originally dissed him, by moving him to second place. Maybe if you clear the air, he will just go away on his own. If you don't, he will continue....I really think that's what's wrong with him. If you are a good friend...talk to him.
2007-02-21 13:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by Ofie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start keeping a distance from him & try to live without him by remembering his worst he has done to you.
2007-02-21 13:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋