For most of my life it seemed natural that I was always alone and that othere people came first, just the way it always was. Lately I look around though and I'm starting to wonder why I'm not like other people? i mean if everyone is like me (which is what I used to asume) then the world wouldn't work right? Especially the thing about other people coming first, like I've had a few friends but their main friends always come first. it doesn't make sense.
The reason I started noticing was that I got a boyfriend a couple years ago and he was super popular in another town. That's when the idea of acctually having friends became real (not just something off TV, i guess I thought of other people in school as TV). i guess I felt like the othere people were like some other species or something. My boyfriend even says I don't do anything really wrong although I am a little clueless.
I'm outgoing and friendly(honest). I'm in University, my mom said things would change but, it's 8 months.
2007-02-21 13:09:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
there are different kinds of people it depends on your child hood how it was are how you was raise .was your parents there for you to let you know about life how it's going to be because i did'nt i had learn on my own, that's why i know about being different from other people and i love it.
2007-02-21 14:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by out law 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way, but you have to like yourself and project self confidence without being a snob, people might think you are mean, try inviting people out and talk more, people tend to be drawn to the talkative person or the class clown
2007-02-21 21:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by life is great 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are you. That is the most special thing in the world. Don't be like other people. Be you. That is what we do best. Is be our selves. I love that in someone. Someone that is comfortable to be themselves. TV is not real life. Other people lives is not a conception of real life. Being you is real life. Do what makes you happy, do your life for you, then you will be able to give to other people and be successful. I don't know you, but if I did, I would want you. Not other people. Please do not ever stop being yourself.
2007-02-21 21:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well every one is different & that's kinda like me~ my BF was reaaly popular in another town but it seemed as if the world had changed & everyone have backup friends & close frineds which wasn't fair!!! SO everyone is different & sees the world in a different way!!!
2007-02-21 21:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
man don't be so hard on yourself...... life sucks for lotsa people....think how lucky you are to have what you do...good looks, a bf ( I'm not even allowed to have a bf), the ability to go to university and everything else....you have what you need and want you just haven't seen or heard it yet life is hard and you have to expect that just don't expect to have nothing when you have everything and you just haven't noticed...
2007-02-21 22:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by holiday girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop being so hard on yourself. Everyone is unique. Just concentrate on school and forget the rest of them.
2007-02-21 21:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by LuckyO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
88 thanks
2007-02-21 21:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by Rivana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋