We both go to school and we talk about our school history. She told me she used to go to private school and had to wear a dress. And she didn't like it. So she now goes to public school. And are conversation ended when the bell rang. She said i'm a loser and she walk away and I told her no your not. And that was it we both walk away and headed toward to another class. Why do you think she called herself a loser? Next day in class I was doing my school work and this girl asked for a piece of gum, and the girl who called herself a loser was siting behind me and she asked for a piece too. I gave both of them a piece of gum. The girl who called herself a loser, said i'm sorry for bothering you. I said you weren't.
2007-02-21 12:57:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It sounds to me (based on my personal experience) as if she feels somewhat inadequate around you.... I know that personally when I'm talking to people (esecially boys) If I say anything that I feel may have been stupid or unimportant (or considered so by the other person) oI tend to just say I'm a loser, or I'm stupid to justify my reason for saying whatever i said.... I don't know for sure...but It sounds kinda like she likes you...
2007-02-21 13:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~Stacey~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's interesting.I think I know what she's coming from.
I am home-schooled here in our community and I do things up at the high-school,but it seems that people look down there noses at me,because I am home-schooled.I can't really answer truthfully why she said the things she said.But maybe get to know her better,ask her questions of herself in her private school and such.But maybe she thinks she isn't as popular as the girls in her new school.In private school she is excluded from certain things,in a public school she now open to those new things.
Maybe others think she is weird because where she use to go to school.I can't really give you a honest answer.
But I am giving you a answer as someone who's been there.
Sorry,
angelinpink
2007-02-21 21:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a self esteem issue or maybe she was just compensating for feeling self-conscious.
2007-02-21 21:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by fluffomatic24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah low self esteem, generally its best not to prod into a situation like that, but its always good to make someone smile, or get them to laugh, let her know that she looks good or something but that could just possibly lead to her oppositly thinking, and saying shes ugly, which could lead her further into depression. take her on a date and get to know her.
2007-02-21 21:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by Dan The Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all just feel like losers if it's something considered dorky.
2007-02-21 21:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Blanca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to make her feel better about herself and become her friend.she wont think shes a loser if she has friends.
2007-02-21 21:03:13 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes strugling to fit in with the public school atmosphere
2007-02-21 21:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by Mikey b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
low self esteem
2007-02-21 21:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she wants attention mate, she might like you.
2007-02-21 21:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's weird
2007-02-21 20:59:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋