Girls: If you liked a guy. U know, u thought he was cute, he was sweet etc. etc. but, every, I repeat EVERY other girl. Not just 50%. Not just 99.9%, but 100% of the girls at your school (pretend he goes to ur school) thought he was ugly, would u still go wit him.
Guys: If you met a girl and u liked her. U found her pretty, she's nice and u feel comfortable around her but EVERY, I repeat EVERY other guy at your school thought she was ugly, would u still go wit her
And I'm not talkin when ur alone you're all over him or her but when ur wit ur friends u don't know him or her. I mean you wouldn't care if the entire world knew.
My friends asked me this a while back and I said I would still go with the boy, but now that I think about it, i'm not sure. And right now i'm so upset b/c I don't want people's ideas to influence my decisions or tastes. (sorry it's just my stubbornness) Plz think b4 u answer and tell the truth.
2007-02-21 12:46:13 · 19 answers · asked by <Me> 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Uh lisak, THIS IS FICTIONAL. I am not shallow. That's what's bothering me. I said i would, but my confidence kinda wavered for a minute. I don't want to be shallow because there's enough shallow girls at my school and i don't want to be like them. I KNOW my feelings about him would stay the same, but really think before you answer.
2007-02-21 13:12:37 · update #1
Beauty is skin deep. I dated a great looking guy and married him, he was the biggest *** alive. He knew he was good lucking and it made him conceited. I have dated men that were lets just say not as nice to look at but treated me like a queen.
So look beyond looks. Everyones looks fade with age but inner beauty is forever.
2007-02-21 13:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by tammer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Beauty is not always on the outside' ... that's an old saying but it's very true. Sometimes the people EVERYONE thinks is 'ugly' is the sweetest, nicest person in the world, but no one ever gets to know that because they're so SHALLOW. So I'd say that if you think this person is 'nice' and you want to go out, then you should 'ask' ... but you really need to 'think about this' and come up with 'your own answer' even if it turns out to be exactly the same as mine, or exactly the opposite. At least you are THINKING!
2007-02-21 12:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I'd go out with the boy, but I'd probably be all concious and paranoid about what other people thought about me dating him and him in general at the start of the relationship, but I think after a while I'd forget about it, because as long as I'm happy, and if he's a nice person and worth it, then whatever. I'd probably feel the need to give people a reason as to why I chose to date this specific boy, but then that'd just be letting myself down. I think what I'd be scared of most is what people think of us together and what they'd be saying. This took a lot of thinking about, but I think I'd date the kid anyway. Looks aren't everything.
2007-02-22 11:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't care right now if I liked someone that everyone else didn't think was cute but in high school honey thats a different story. if you said just some not all of the other people said he was cute, i'd say go for it but if 100% say ugly, forget it.
2007-02-21 13:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by Arraya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would go out with him. There's this guy that everyone. Literally everyone thinks is ugly. But he's nice and sweet and talks to me a lot. I still like him though. A lot. If he asked me out (never gonna happen), I would say yes.
2007-02-21 13:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him... that's being shallow to go out with a guy just because of his looks and not his personality ( although he has to be alittle easy on the eyes...lol)
2007-02-22 00:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by JessiKa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i year ago i wouldnt of but now i would ive learned not to let ppls ideas influence me and realize that if somone wouldnt be my friend just because i went out with somone realy ugly then i wouldnt want to be there friend ! there just insecure and ur better then them in this hypithetical situation
2007-02-21 16:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by twinkletoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I don't care what anyone else thinks. If you really like someone, you should not let fear or pride get in they way. That would make you less of a person.
2007-02-22 12:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I am influenced by other peoples opinion of me but not enough to reject someone that i truly loved. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
2007-02-21 21:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by ERIC W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would yes, because I really don't care what other people think. It's not like my friends would stop hanging out with me because of him.
2007-02-21 13:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by Kimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋