oh were do i start my mom has been in jail of and on my whole life my mom went to jail in like october and get out this month i live with my grandpa and grandma and my sis my sis and grandma dont want anything to do with my mom so me and my grandpa go see my mom well i have been sick the last 2 weeks and havent been able to see my mom so today i missed school just to go see my mom and when we got ther we found out she got out 1 week and 3 days ago i was so mad only me and my grandpa go see her and she dosent even call her kids she went with her boyfriend joey im starting to think she loves him more than us she takes drugs and stuff and just kicked the habet and im scared she is going to get pregnant or stuff what can i do to get her of my mind and stop worrying if she ok and pleas dont say somthing mean im not in the mood. you could say somthing mean about my mom but please not me
2007-02-21 12:31:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like you love your mom A LOT even though she's had a hard time 'making it' in the world. Don't ever let ANYONE tell you that's 'wrong.' I know that you are really worried about your mom right now, but you are 'just a kid' and your mom is a 'grown up' and has to be the only one 'responsible' for her actions. I know that you think you can 'talk' to her, but you really can't ... her parents (your grandparents) have tried and they couldn't and you are 'just' her child. Just be a 'good girl' and say a prayer to God asking him to 'watch over her and keep her safe' every night ... I know that doesn't sound like much, but it will help her, and it will also help you, too ... even if you 'don't believe in God' you can go ahead and pray to him, too ... because God believes in you! Good luck, hon! I'll pray for both of you, too.
2007-02-21 12:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kris L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun you shouldn't be worrying about your mom she should be worrying about you!She is your mom and it dosen't matter what she dose your going to love her but, at the same time she is your mom and no matter what she dose she will love you to.Grown ups make mistakes to and aparently she has made alot.You keep loveing her but at the same time go on with your life.You can't stop liveing because she has a problem but you can learn from her mistakes.Mabey she'll learn from the way you chose to live your life and know that your their for her if and when she decides to change.She loves you drugs has a mind of there own and you can't think or care about anything while your on them.I really hope she gets clean and starts being the mother you deserve. With lots prayers anything can happen.Have fun do things with your grandpa try to keep busy.
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2007-02-21 12:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by trenia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I have something to tell you my mom is like that to but she is doing a lot better but i still live with my grandparents my answer to you is love you re mom and trust her if she really loves u she will come home and will stop taking drugs and if she does come home tell her how much you love her and how much you've missed her and worried about her and when she comes home and shes on drugs try to remind her that she has two daughters that really love her and even if you sister didnt you should know she does remind that what i did and my mom is no long on drugs any more
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2007-02-21 12:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by A-star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all as a mother I want you to know this is not about you andI'm so sorry you are hurt by her actions. I have been in jail and my kids would not or could not come visit me I prayed alot and that is my suggestion to you Pray for her and keep her close in your heart . Try to stay positive and think positive. But remeber this is not anything you did it is drugs and bad behavior on her part. I'll pray for you to lots of love to u
2007-02-21 12:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by Gina A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom hasn't reached bottom yet, and she may never. I know it won't be easy (I have done it) but just concentrate on your own life and be thankful you have wonderful grandparents that took up where your mom left off. She is hooked on the drugs and they rule her life. Until she kicks that habit, there is not much you can do except be there for her when she hits bottom and help her pick up the pieces.
2007-02-21 12:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry. i can't believe that a mom could do that to her own kids. i know it happens though. gosh, what a tough situation for you to be in. hang in there. you sound like a great person. things will improve, you just have to be strong. your mom will realize someday that she has made a huge mistake and how much of your life she has missed and how much hurt she has caused. just take things day by day. you can make it through. when you graduate, go out there and make a good life for yourself. you can't control what others do but you can learn from others mistakes and know not to make them yourself. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-21 12:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom has lots of problems in her life right now. she's trying to stay off drugs and that's hard work. i don't know why she didn't call you to tell you she was out of jail, i can't imagine doing that to my kids. it's ok that you love your mom, but maybe you should try counseling to help you deal with your feelings. best of luck to you.
2007-02-21 12:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by SassySue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... I am really sorry to hear that, but unfortunately it sounds like your mother has completely written her family all off. And I know from experience that people that don't want to be found, usually succeed.
2007-02-21 12:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have read a lot of story to day, but your touch my heart,,, but i gald you got a grand pa that love you,, but to be honset, when people do drugs, they dont care about any one, only where they going to get their next fix,, but i say this if you know wher she at, get your grand pa, to take you where she at, that way you can see her an talk to her,but sweeted , no matture what she does she still your mom,,, pray for her
2007-02-21 12:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope ur not liek other ppl who h8 pitty. im soo srry=( i no it can b hard and i feel so bad. i wiish i could really help mail me if u need som1 to talk to i can help im 14 by the way and my names nikie. she might love him more but thats her promblem u a good caring kid and shes just not caring. im srry love hurts=(
2007-02-21 12:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋