Ok Im 21 married and I have some college under my belt and a few jobs here and there, but now I have to decide weither or not to purisue school or get a job, or even when to have kids and I have no idea. Honestly I think that school is boring and jobs get boring very fast to me.. any opinions???thanks
2007-02-21 12:20:22 · 5 answers · asked by *BellasMommy* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK, first off, if both school and jobs are boring, what are you going to do if you have kids and find they are boring too??? Life is not all about doing what's NOT BORING...sometimes you gotta do things that just aren't that fun. PLEASE don't have kids just because the other two options sound boring to you, that is one of the worst reasons I can think of to have kids. Instead, think....a job is a means to an end, so, if you were say, my stepdaughter (who is married, young, w/kid) this is the advice I would give her...."You can't always depend on your hubby. He could have an accident, die, divorce, you just don't know the future. So the most practical thing for you to do is get a skill, a marketable skill and good job, so that IF YOU HAD TO, you could take care of yourself. That should be your first priority before you bring any kids into the world. Secondly, if you do have kids, you should sacrifice said decent job/skill to spend their first years with them. What's the point of having kids if you ship them off to strangers all day long? Honestly, it's a good question.....
2007-02-21 12:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from what I have read, you arent really comfortable with life. Thats cool, but school will lead to the dream job that you want, whatever that is. Just stay in school, take up a major that you know you really want to do, along with a part time job, and everything will be cool. You just need a positive attitude when doing these things. As for the kids, it just happens, and it will be something that you regret, but will be glad when they grow up and you can say thats your kid
2007-02-21 20:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by I am Noodles! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pardon me for saying this, in this case you shouldnt get married in such a young age. U have no ideal what you want in your life and this comes into you and your partner. Once married, its not about your own life, its more to both of you, your life. I suggest one thing, back to basic 1st since you are confuse at this moment that is work. Remember, in this realistic world, no money no talk. LOLx.. hhaha.. take care! Im 21 too!
2007-02-21 20:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by Its me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the doubts you have about which way you want your life to go it's a bad time to think about having children.
School maybe boring but that's how you provide a good life for your future child.
2007-02-21 20:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see you said you married,, it may not came to you but you now got a wife,an love not going to feed you,,,,, but to look at your ?,, i say do both , go to school in the day an pull a job at night,,, ,no matture how boring the job is, no work , no home. an no honey
2007-02-21 20:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋