If you were having an affair with a married man and the wife found about out about you and she came to you as a women and ask you if you and her husband were having an affair.Would you tell her the truth or would you lie about the whole affair? and why If I was asked I would tell her everything especially if he had said that he was going to leave his wife.I would never mess with another woman husband or man.I am married and I am just curious to know how many would tell the truth compared to those that would lie.
2007-02-21 12:14:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't understand why anyone would lie. You weren't interested in protecting the wife when you were messing with her husband. If I got caught, I would 'fess up and take ownership of my actions. But, that is just me. Now, I would sit there and give her details - just enough to know she needed to make some serious decisions regarding the future of her marriage.
For the record, I would NEVER cheat with a married or taken man!
2007-02-21 12:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have never been in that situation. I am NOT the type to date a married man, not knowingly anyway. I am the type to tell the truth though. I probably wouldn't go into details because that would just cause more pain then the actual affair, but I would tell the truth.
2007-02-21 20:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by butterflywndr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so your husband is having an affair and you are wondering if you should approach her right,
if she lies than she will never have him she will always be the other woman. if she tells the truth she risks loosing him he will be VERY angry because she told
2007-02-21 20:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth except if he seemed dangerous. But I'm not into engaged people. The only way I could go there would be: if I was unaware of the engagement.
2007-02-21 20:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jeronimo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth.
2007-02-21 20:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by BETTY E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I also wouldn't have an affair with a married or an attached man, but hypothetically...I would be honest with her, and tell her.
2007-02-21 20:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husbands hotty told me every last detail. She wasn't bragging just stating the facts as they were.
2007-02-24 11:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell the truth
2007-02-23 23:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋