I love her, but she loves him. She came "back" to me to find a house to live with me because she can not stand the people with whom she and her boyfriend are living. In the past three weeks, we did everything from kiss, hug to touch except sex. So I have a deep talk with her, and found out she still love her boyfriend, but she and her bf are having a little problem, they are like "trial separate" at the moment. You know what the problem is? The problem is her anger problem. He gave her four year's time to change it, and she agreed. And I asked her why do you love him, because her bf is kinda short, ugly, poor in study and selfish, and she answers she thought as long as she started a relationship, she's gotta be serious about it and won't end it easily unless the other one do so. She, as the most lovely and sexy woman in my eyes, said she sorta looks down herself. That's why she'd rather be a pet of some low quality guy.
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2007-02-21 12:04:49 · 5 answers · asked by tellthemfromme 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Last three weeks we had the best moments in our lives, we laughed and laughed and laughed, even she said she is happier with me than him, and she did more things for me than him, she doesn't like to leave him for me, instead, she will leave me for him. After another deep talk last night, and we know I am kind to her because I want to be her boyfriend, and she is kind to me because she want to be my friend, and after the word I said about how I wasted my love. She is kinda unhappy and decided to move out after two weeks. --- not to her boyfriend's, but to someone she never knows. Because she thinks it's GOOD FOR BOTH OF US.
I love her, I cried and cried in my room last night. And now I want to hear from you, what should I do? I am really confused and, a little heartbroken.
2007-02-21 12:05:02 · update #1
Get a piece and kick her to the curb!
2007-02-21 12:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay within your value system and with what feels normal. This woman is taking you into a world of weirdness and confusion. Get out of it before you go insane. Find someone whose values reflect your own.
2007-02-21 20:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by OTTO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's messed up and now you are too,you're just spinning your wheels in place going nowhere with this woman.Can you stop crying long enough to get away and GET A LIFE?!!!
2007-02-21 22:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by Georgewasmyfavorite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like she needs someone who is much stronger than herself and would take control,perhaps resorting to what is a father like figure, difficult to understand but it happens.There is much more to this scenario.
2007-02-21 21:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by hunter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.... sometimes you ...... this sucks
she souldnt look down at herself soo much.. was she depressed when she got to your house?
Did she spend long hours in bed at morning time?
2007-02-21 20:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋