So my guy and I are going at it, and it was real nice you know, but then he doesn't you know uhmm orgasm. He got tired and stopped. Is that bad? What prevents a guy from having orgasm?
2007-02-21 11:53:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
yeah it was our first time.
2007-02-21 12:04:10 · update #1
That was exactly why. Because it was your first time. Sometimes when men have sex with a girl that he likes very much for the first time he's nervous, anxious, and sorta uncomfortable. Any of these conditions can cause a man not to blow his load. I'm sure he wanted to climax just as bad as you wanted him to. If it continues to happen, make sure he hasn't been choking the ole chicken for a while and see what happens.
My advice is to give him time and let him get the butterflies out.
2007-02-21 12:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by BloodLust 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nerves, alot of guys have trouble having an orgasm the first time with a girl, especially if they're both inexperienced. it just takes some time to get to know what works.
2007-02-21 12:18:48 · answer #2 · answered by Rhuby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few things can cause this. Stress, tiredness, anxiety, medication, alcohol, not being in the mood. It can be psychologically bad for the guy if it happens regularly
2007-02-21 14:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by skip22h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps there was not enough foreplay...you know, stuff happened too fast for real arousal to occur. Maybe one of the members was not up to the occasion, or was forced into it? Or was one of the partys just no good?
2007-02-21 15:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is the first few times ya'll are going at it,he may be nervous. If not, maybe he is not into it. Or maybe he had just ejaculated noy long ago.
2007-02-21 12:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by chip b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stress,and hes not paying attension to what hes doing.hes thinking about other stuff.tell him for me,that hes got to learn to relax and enjoy your body,then he will come.it doesnt take me long lol.
2007-02-21 12:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not relly into it. Maybe he wasn't relax or didn't wanted to do it.
2007-02-21 11:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a girl or guy?
2007-02-21 12:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say he was probably nervouse... or mabey had just ejaculated b4 u had sex...
2007-02-21 14:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋