I love her, but she loves him. She came "back" to me to find a house to live with me because she can not stand the people with whom she and her boyfriend are living. In the past three weeks, we did everything from kiss, hug to touch except sex. So I have a deep talk with her, and found out she still love her boyfriend, but she and her bf are having a little problem, they are like "trial separate" at the moment. You know what the problem is? The problem is her anger problem. He gave her four year's time to change it, and she agreed. And I asked her why do you love him, because her bf is kinda short, ugly, poor in study and selfish, and she answers she thought as long as she started a relationship, she's gotta be serious about it and won't end it easily unless the other one do so. She, as the most lovely and sexy woman in my eyes, said she sorta looks down herself. That's why she'd rather be a pet of some low quality guy.
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2007-02-21 11:29:04 · 5 answers · asked by tellthemfromme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Last three weeks we had the best moments in our lives, we laughed and laughed and laughed, even she said she is happier with me than him, and she did more things for me than him, she doesn't like to leave him for me, instead, she will leave me for him. After another deep talk last night, and we know I am kind to her because I want to be her boyfriend, and she is kind to me because she want to be my friend, and after the word I said about how I wasted my love. She is kinda unhappy and decided to move out after two weeks. --- not to her boyfriend's, but to someone she never knows. Because she thinks it's GOOD FOR BOTH OF US.
I love her, I cried and cried in my room last night. And now I want to hear from you, what should I do? I am really confused and, a little heartbroken.
2007-02-21 11:29:15 · update #1
Leave her and go find someone else you'll probably be happier later on..and dont let her walk in and out ur life like that either..its not fair 4 u
2007-02-21 13:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by bebekaychic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have given her a sample of the kind of relationship you offer. Sit back. Relax. Wait for her to either realize that or come to the conclusion she needs something else.
You don't get a girl merely by wanting the girl. Begging doesn't work. You are who you are. She has gotten a sample of you. That's all you can do. That's all you should do.
Stay aloof. If she comes back, she comes back. If, as you say, she is intrigued with a selfish, etc guy, you ought to be wondering why she'd be interested in you. The fact is she isn't sufficiently attracted to you or she'd be there for you.
Protect yourself, if you can. If you can't, you may luck out if she doesn't come back.
2007-02-21 19:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-19 23:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her set her free. She doesn't know what she wants or who she is. Move on with your life.
2007-02-21 19:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by ang_23el 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U have been behaving queer right from the begining.
2007-02-21 20:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋