OK my roomate constantly asks to borrow things, asks to have my food, copy my homework, turn down my music, use my computer, etc. She found out i was irritated and just stormmed out saying "so i heard you were irritated, next time, tell it to my face" or something like that, i am so angry and i have being cryin gfor like 15 minutes and i want to break something! What should i do she is botherinf me soo much!
2007-02-21 10:58:22 · 9 answers · asked by shybunnny69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just break up the friendship with her and move to another place. You do not want to deal with that and this is not you wanted to be treated.
2007-02-21 11:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by msjerge 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My roomate drives me crazy too so I know how you feel. Nextime they ask to borrow your things have your food or copy your homework say no and stand by your answer. for something like them turning down your music, or asking you to keep it down, you do have to give them a bit of leeway, they do have to share the same space after all.
My roomate was always on my *** about listening to music late at night (I can't sleep without it) or even typing because it kept him awake. I switched to listening to my music on a head set but told him he'd have to give up on the typing thing, I can't type quieter- it's not like I'm using a mallet. Some things are give and take, other things you just have to put your foot down. Sometimes it's best to just sit down and set rules as to waht's acceptible and what's not- I'm sure you do things that drive her crazy as well.
2007-02-21 11:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by Rhuby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 05:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you were just trying to avoid conflict and im not siding with her but you do exactly what she said tell it to her face let her know how you feel if this continues to be a problem try and see if you can switch rooms or something.
2007-02-21 11:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by nobody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well next time you should say it to her, be honest and talk to her ealrier on because maybe she didn't even know she was bothering you. And if you really dislike so many things about her maybe you shouldn't be friends in the first place.
2007-02-21 11:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that first of all u should expcet that i dont like to hurt peoples feeling cuz im shy (see what she says) then tell her that its half of my(ur) room too and she should be respectful cuz she doesnt have to put up with her s**t . dont let her walk over u cuz then she'll think ur weak if that back fires just tell her the first thing that i said( and keep goin on from there)........hope it works
2007-02-21 11:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you seriously calling this girl your friend? She asked you to tell it to her face, do it and don't hold back.
2007-02-21 11:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she isnt your "real" friend. she is just using you as............A MAID!! Tell her to do her own homework and to buy her own food.
2007-02-21 11:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she's your friend?
Mess with her when she's asleep.
2007-02-21 11:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by Jacques 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋