my dad is always mean to my mom he calls her many ugly words to he threatens to divorce her and yells at us?

Question

what do I do? oh an I am9 and my sister is 5

Answer 1

Unfortunately we can not pick our parents. If you can talk to your Mom alone it would be good to tell her how you feel. She may be staying in this situation for you children. If she finds out you do not want to live like this she might decide to do something about it. If you are really scared for your safety talk to school teacher, they will see you get help. If your dad gets violent, call 911.

Answer 2

Sorry to say honey, there is not much you can do, unless it gets physically violent, in that case you can call the police. If you feel you are being mentally abused (getting called bad names and such) tell another family member ( grandma, grandpa, uncle, aunt, cousin). If you don't say anything how will anyone ever make it better? Talk to your parents if at all possible and let them know how you are feeling, if they really care they will keep fights behind closed doors away from you and your sis. People are gonna fight because no person is just like anybody else, it happens. And sometimes when there are children around some of the anger gets taken out on them. Be strong and make sure you and your sis continue to take care of each other. Much love to you.

Answer 3

SweetHeart, Firstly you , your sister and mom have done nothing that you would deserve this kind of treatment. It is vitally important that you never try and defend your mom when dad is angry like this because he may turn on you.
Try and speak to your Mom when you are alone about how this is affecting you and your sister. Remind your mom how wonderful she is and how important she is to all of you and those words from your dad are not true and he needs help.
No one should be treated this way. Ever, EVER!
If dad ever strikes mom call 911 or go to a neighbours house with your sister if you can and ask them to call 911.
Darling I will pray for you and your family.
Remember Dad is the one who needs help from a professional and you guy's are not at fault.

Answer 4

it sounds to me like she is just a natural b*tch. don't blame yourself for her nastiness, you are right and have done nothing to deserve it. honestly, i don't think you could ever get this woman's approval. You go there to see your father not her, i think it is fair enough that you give as good as you get. don't bother hugging her, or being nice. It is not worth the effort. If it is a huge problem, try talking to your father at a time you know you won't be interrupted. Even get your mum to talk to him, to tell him you come home in tears because of this woman. The people before me are totally right, she is jealous of the fact that you are her 'mans' child, she cannot change that no matter what and she hates that fact. Don't take it personally, chances are you could be a saint and she wouldn't like you. it's just that fact that you are your fathers child. good luck, i hope it works out for you

Answer 5

Stay out of the way as much as possible. It is only yelling now, but could escalate. If he does start beating you, your sister, or your mom, call 911 and have him locked up.

Answer 6

I am 9 too. My Dad and Mom are divorced but I hate when they're together. They fight so much. I'm really getting tired of it.This is what you do. Talk to your mom see how she feels about it. Then talk to your dad. Sometimes it helps to write things down.Talk to them together and let them work it out mostly.Let them know it bothers you. I know it seems weird but you should talk to your sister about it too.But you always have to remember this: sometimes divorce is right.My parents did that and I still get to see them each equally.

Answer 7

talk to your mom about it, if she doesn't want to talk, then talk to your grandma or grandpa, or a teacher at school, let them know what is going on.
if things get violent around your house call the police or 911.

good luck i hope the best for you and your family, be there for your little sister as much as you can, and be good to your mom, dont make things worse for her

Answer 8

you can do a few things.

1. call the police and let them talk this out
2. talk to them if it effects you in a negative way. they will usually make up.
3. see if you can get into a temporary foster home while they get things patched up.
4. tell a teacher at school, talk to a guidance counselor, or anyone else you completely trust.

this is a serious issue! talk to someone!!!

Answer 9

If your mom can see that she is beautiful both on the outside and on the inside, she needs to stand up to him, tell him what she thinks, then the rest is up to her. I would tell him go find a place to stay, cool your jets. When everyone was calm they could talk.

Answer 10

Definitely talk to someone, either your mom or grandparents! Tell them how you are feeling! Never be afraid to tell! Good Luck to you, your sister and mom!