i just broke up with a crazy ex-boyfriend and he is notorious for stalking me. i tried getting my number change but then he started e-mailing me asking me to take him back. I got a new e-mail address but for some strange reason he ended up findin out my new e-mail address, i dont kow wat to do anymore because i have done all i can, but i can not get away from him
2007-02-21 10:40:23 · 14 answers · asked by Deshawnna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tough one. First try to make it clear that you don't want anything..or want him back..see if he starts to ease up..If he doesn't then keep doing what your doing..Change your locks, if he had a key or could get one...? Um..Change fax, anythign he could get too..soon enough he will get tired..Lets hope...YOu must of been a great person if this is happening. =) Good luck..I bet he will get tired or make it clear to stop!
2007-02-21 10:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by lpokknmui 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that if he continues to harass you that you will call the police. Tell him he gets only 1 warning. Keep all voice-mails and emails he sends you. If he continues to harass you then file a police report and get a restraining order against him. I don't want to scare you, but, a lot women get hurt or even killed by their exes. Good luck and may God be with you.
2007-02-21 18:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by cireengineering 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the stalker "no" once and only once, and then never give him the satisfaction of a reaction again. The more you respond, the more you teach him that his actions will elicit a response. This only serves to reinforce the stalking. if all else fails....restraining order!
2007-02-21 18:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is just emailing you, then you can ignore the emails. Some things only bother you if you let them. You can decide that his emails don't bother you. I am thinking if you are persistently non-responsive to him, he will give up. In your mind, decide he no longer matters. If he calls, never answer, never reply to an email. If he is in person, just be polite and that is all. If he is in person, answer his requests for a date with a No that never changes. Begin making a record of his contact with you for lawful purposes.
2007-02-21 18:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by Gary B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple get a restraining order go to police and even if he is standing in front of you get somewhere public and totally ignore him he sounds a serious jerk other then that get a seriously big new boyfriend good luck
2007-02-23 10:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by clare w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. Even if they can't or don't do anything, there will be a record in case you need it.
Block his emails and delete them.
2007-02-21 18:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by rugbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is worring u which it sounds like he is u need to call the police people like him can get dangerous!!! and really hurt u or worse i really think u should call the police and get a restraining order
2007-02-21 18:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him if he asks u to take say no.tat u would of but now he is stalking u that it turned into a no.
2007-02-21 18:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT TRY TA RUN AWAY FRM HIM! fIGHT BAC!! lyk, just send him an email sayn: was ur problem!!?? I DONT WANNA BE WID YU...nd if yu havta, lie, then say that yu alredy hav sum 1 else
2007-02-21 18:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by Angiee <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restraining order!!
2007-02-21 18:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by Virginnniiiaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋