past few days my bf has been acting wierd and totally stupid because of the things he's been saying. I keep getting suspicious we have been together since deec of 2005 but the thing is we love each other or atleast i think on monday he stood me up and yesturday we were arguing and he ended up hunging up on me i dont think should ccall back since he's the one who did hung up on me but then again it has been 2 days since we talked and i really really miss him and i dont think i can wait but i dont want him to take avantage of my weekness. although all the stupid things he have said he doesnt know im mad cuz of that cuz i hate confronting with him i get all mushy...so help me should i call back or no?
2007-02-21 10:40:10 · 13 answers · asked by cristinlchat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i dont think you should. i think that u love him more than he loves u and he knows this so he is taking advantage of u. i wont say he was wrong to hang up on u cause i dont know the problem, but if u know that u are right dont call him back. if he doesnt call u back with in the rest of the week he is seeing somebody else and doesnt cae about u anymore, wat u need to do if he is playing u is move on with ur life, find the cutest guy and play him back, but dont let the new guy know r make sure u love him, cause if the new guy thinks that u r playing him, he is going to leave.
2007-02-21 10:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by babyblue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet you that most people will tell you to let him be the one who will call you back and play "hard to get"... this is my view...do what you feel needs to be done when you are calm and can think straight. No games... be straight forward. It doens't mean you are desperate or easy. It just means you care about him and the relationship. Tell him that if there's something that bothers him, you are there to listen to him when he is ready to talk. Then move on with your normal activities. Maybe you guys just need some time for yourselves. Don't spend your time thinking about this. Remember that the power to think is the power to create. So stop creating drama in your head so that it'll not happen. What's the worse that could happen?
2007-02-21 10:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by Dadsy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not call him, he's already messed up by standing you up and hanging up on you, you may miss him but he is in the wrong and has to realize that so let him have some time from you where there is no communication etc until he can learn to treat you how you deserve to be treated , but be strong and realize that you can do much better especially if he doesnt call you in the time frame you would like....
2007-02-21 10:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun- it sounds like your BF could be cheating on you.. If he stood you up and then hung up the phone because of an arguement and hasn't called you back in two days.. You should take him out to dinner and talk to him. See what is going on. Be honest with him and see what his reason was for standing you up and also not calling you back in two days...You need to let him know that you are upset- confront him!
2007-02-21 10:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by stephanie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you not being you for once might be what this relationship needs.U said he has been acting weird the past few days.Maybe the argument is his way of trying to get out of this relationship n if you call him u might like or not like what he has to say if he answers.I'm sorry to have said this but it could be.I hope for you it isn't what I think n hope it works out for you 2.Anyway bye 4 now and have a great wk.
2007-02-21 10:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Calling him back makes you appear weak and lets him know he can do it again with no consequences from you. Stand your ground. If he doesn't call in a week, write him off. He doesn't care about you at that point anyway. Take some time off, then find someone who will treat you right, and don't settle.
2007-02-21 10:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it is rude to hang up on someone ecspecially if you love them and it doesn't matter who was wrong or right in the argument either.
I know your headed in for a whole lotta hurt so I want you know it sounds like he is ready to move on.
2007-02-21 10:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Who's fault was it? If he stood you up, that sounds like it was his fault. I would say to not call him. Wait it out for another few days. If you give in, then you're letting him win.
2007-02-21 10:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by jeneration Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't call him back, let him call you, I know it's hard but if you call him he's just gonna keep hanging up the phone on you whenever he feels like it, don't let him think your week, once he sees your not calling back, i'm pretty sure he'll call you.
2007-02-21 10:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by sexylatina0321 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Who started the fight? If it was you then try calling but go with your gut instinct. If he's been acting weird and something doesn't feel right, its usually because its not.
2007-02-21 10:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋