Well there is this girl i like alot, and she hates me and when i ask her if she does she says she doesnt, and her bestfreind says she doesnt.. but everytime i try to talk to her she will give me a dirty look.. and she blocked me on aim.. i dont understand what i did wrong.. we used to be very good friends.. but ever since i told her i liked her.. things have been diferent, and i just need some advice to make things like they used to be, or i would atleast like to know what i did wrong... should i just ignore her and not talk to her (i dont want to do that) or i need some advise on how i should talk to her. thanks
2007-02-21
10:14:06
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When you have been friend with someone for a very long time.. its not easy to tell her/him that you like him/her... whem this happens friendship... kind of ends..... things change... since she/he knows you like her/him more than a friend... and they dont know how to approach you... if they give you a hug or kiss.. she/he doesn't know how you are going to take it... you see what i mean.... its over my friend.... or well you can lie... which i dont recommend and tell her you were just playing... and maybe that can change things.... any further questions e-mail me i am always here to help anyone....
2007-02-21 10:21:22
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answered by Luis R 4
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You said that you guys use to be friends so why not just go up to her and say hi then tell her what is bothering you. If she still wants to be your friend she would listen to you and try to work this out between you two. I know that you still like the girl and everything but there can be possibilities for her behavior.
1) She probably didn't like the fact that she wanted you just as a friend and you wanted to be more. Or in stronger words upset or even maybe angry by you liking her.
2) She probably likes back but is afraid of how things would turn out or afraid to lose your friendship decides that running away from it would be the best answer. She could even be afraid to tell you that she likes you back.
2007-02-21 10:23:36
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answered by Anonymous
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if she blocked you on aim and she gives you dirty looks she is probably just not into you that way and she doesn't know how to tell you. if you want things to go back to the way they were, try to date someone. don't try to ask her why she is being that way she more than likely won't tell you. but the best way in my opinion is to ignore her for a few weeks or a month. that way she will realize that you don't want to deal with the drama and she will come to you and talk to you. girls are like that.
2007-02-21 10:21:04
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answered by Stacey Michelle 2
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Just tell her what you said here, that you don't know what you did wrong and you want things to be like they used to. And since you told her you liked her, you'll have to let her know that you're okay with her not feeling the same (maybe even if you're not, it'll make things easier) and that you respect the fact that she doesn't like you. If you still want to be her friend you should probably talk to her about it.
2007-02-21 10:27:15
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answered by i_play_6 2
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answered by ? 3
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She probably doesn't know how to act around you now, She probably still wants to be friends and that is all, Try talking to her and tell her that you just want to be friends and go back to the way it used to be
Good Luck
2007-02-21 10:25:39
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answered by butterflybaby 3
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ask her what the problem is. i've had the exact same problem with a guy i liked that was my best friend, but i told him i didnt like him anymore and we became friends again. dont worry, she'll get over it, shes a girl.
2007-02-21 10:26:54
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answered by suhjuhduh♥ 2
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you can try to ask her why shes ignoring you and if she says "im not" just stop talking to her for a month dude. then sheel come crawling back. im telling u shes taking advantage of u.
2007-02-21 10:15:51
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answered by Anonymous
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She does hate you. She, like so many of us, hates everyone who is unable to use punctuation. Don't try to tell us your thoughts are so illuminating that they can't be dragged down to earth by the banal rules of our language.
2007-02-21 10:23:11
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answered by Anonymous
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She may just be shy...
so don't stop talking to her but don't like follow her around and stuff.... that's a bit weird. Just be friendly, and your good ol' regular self.
Good luck!
God Bless!
2007-02-21 10:20:31
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answered by All 4 His Glory 3
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