Pre-marital sex is a sin in our religion. i never add sex before. I am 26. i cant stop masterbating. i am so much addicted that i had see some porn every day. Even chat about sex all the time. 2 or 3 masterbation everyday. i am also developing incest feelings and fantasies. i am so afraid of getting addicted to sex and even afraid i may abuse my future wife. i think about sex all the time, from awake to going to sleep. i had fantacised every woman i have seen. call me pervert but i need help and i dont want to be like this. anybody has answers????
2007-02-21 10:12:09 · 13 answers · asked by james 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
a person like you will not be having sex long
2007-02-21 10:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-21 14:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by beyondhelper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you have signs of dependence - sex is a human drive, something we all genuinely need. There is nothing wrong with masturbation, not even if you're in a committed relationship. As long as it's not stopping you doing other important things like socialising or working, then you're fine, really.
2016-05-24 04:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek some help. Although masturbation in normal if you are concerned about how you feel you need to get some help. The sooner the better.
This is not the place for sex counseling. Get professional help or you risk the love of the ones around you if they are or become victims of your abuse patterns and fantasies.
Incest is a scary word. Please seek help now. If you don't get help there may not be a future wife.
2007-02-21 10:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mee-Maw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying. You are young and you have a healthy sex drive - I think you are feeling guilty because of your religion and this is driving you a little crazy. It doesn't mean that you have a sex addiction or that you are perverted. I hope you find someone to love and share your life with soon.
2007-02-21 10:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro...it is not sex that is the problem. The problem is you are 26 and never had it. No wonder you cannot think of anything else!!!
Go out and get some.
Unfortunatley though after so MANY years of masturbation I am betting you will last all of four minutes...but get some anyway!
2007-02-21 10:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by Papa Mac DaddyJoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counseling should help. It will also get to the root of you incestuous thoughts. Personally, I think it just branches off from the bigger problem and you should definitely see someone if it's gotten to the point where you're worried about the well being of you and the person you decide to spend the rest of you life with.
2007-02-21 12:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something only a counselor can help you with, a specialist in sexual dysfunction. Maybe your religion's attempts to suppress your natural sexual desires all these years has something to do with it. Also, preoccupation with masturbating can also be a sign of clinical depression. A qualified counselor/doctor will be able to help you sort it out. Make that call, don't suffer any longer.
2007-02-21 10:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this is all new to you, eventually it will get old or you will be drain out!!. I also think your religion has to be part of why are being this way right now. Have you ever talk to any of your friends from the same religion about this? maybe they have or had the same problem.
2007-02-21 10:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by alma c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
counseling and therapy will help you find the root of your problem and ways to prevent it from ruining your life. just like any other addiction there are support groups and 12-step programs. i suggest finding a good therapist who is familiar with sex addiction and a support group. find a sponsor and work the steps. it works if you want it to.
2007-02-21 10:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋