2007-02-21 10:10:00 · 8 answers · asked by seek 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
find out what he is interested in and do some research into it..and then you might have something to discuss and talk about with him. What you don't know you can ask him and he will like the fact you are asking him questions about it and then he will love to talk about his interests and then you won't even have to talk! Just because you are soft spoken is no excuse for you to not have anything to talk about. Perhaps you are wording it wrongly and mean you are shy??? And why should you be the one talking about things? Is he not bringing up conversation or is he and your simply shaking your head, yes and no? Girl, practice makes "perfect" you need to start opening up if you want this relationship to work.
2007-02-21 10:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being shy and sensitive in general, unless you think there is an underlying issue? I have pretty much always been shy and sensitive, especially growing up, but in my early twenties when i started to avoid social situations, i knew there was other issues that needed addressing and after discussing it with two doctors i was diagnosed with social anxiety. I'm not saying this is the case with you because some people are just naturally shy, but it wouldn't hurt to speak to a professional if it worries you. Some of the most caring people who i know, or have ever met, have been shy and sensitive. It's just apart of who you are and it's an admirable trait to many people.
2016-05-24 04:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him questions and let him do the talking. This site has a life time of questions...pick some out!
2007-02-21 10:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this really a problem to him? my guy was grateful that I only speak when I have something to say. Its pretty quiet around our house and we have been married almost 10 years
2007-02-21 10:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by LatterDaySaint and loving it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes silence is golden. Is he complaining? Maybe that is why he likes you? Just a thought.
2007-02-21 10:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by halfshy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you thought about playing cards or a game? do something that doesn't involve straight awkward talk.
2007-02-21 10:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)Don't talk about your exboyfriends of his
2) Don't talk about yourself a lot
Why do you want to talk?
guys don't like to talk a lot
they prefer action
2007-02-21 10:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to a physciatrist!
2007-02-21 10:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋