Even though you are a shy and private person this doesn't mean that you have to keep to yourself and not talk to anyone. Why dint you have a little get together with some of the people that you know and like. Tell them to invite some of their friends and then have them come to your place. Once they come meangle and have fun with everyone and dont worry about anything just talk and be outgoing and like i said before HAVE FUN. And more than likely you will find some people that you like and you they want to schedule another time to hang out with them again.
2007-02-21 10:13:00
·
answer #1
·
answered by Elizabeth G 1
·
0⤊
0⤋
Hang out with your friends and their friends. It is a GREAT way to meet people. Most of my friends that I know were friends from my other friends in the first place. I know that this works because I am shy as well.
2007-02-21 10:44:14
·
answer #2
·
answered by Ben 2
·
0⤊
0⤋
Well, to start with, you seem to be a nice guy, who has few small personal problems, some of which are caused by social misconceptions. You don't seem to be open to your family, and that is another cause of your problems. I will try to make this really short: 1- You should stop thinking that you must have a girlfriend, because not every smart or good guy has a relationship. 2- At this stage you need to concentrate on your studies and think of your future career; like what field you are interested in and what you want to do for living. You are in the stage where you should grow and acquire knowledge, skills and attitudes in order to take your place in adult society. 3- Don't look at girls as sexual targets for guys. I know that this is the way most guys think of girls these days, but it is wrong. Think of them as just other persons that you can trust and be friends with, just like guy friends. I know that you are eager to experience the feeling of having an intimate relationship, but that will come when you feel really good about yourself. On the other hand you should know that the views of girls about life and relationships are different from those of women's. One day you will find a woman, who will see you as "The Man" for her. 4- I think you should loose some weight, for which you can spend sometime working out and eating well to have healthy and smart looking body. This will contribute to your self esteeme and good personality. 5- You need to discuss social issues with your parents. Ask your mother about all female stuff that you want to know. Don't take the views of guys your age as correct, because most of them are wrong. Talk to your dad, and be friends with him, talk personal stuff and so on, because he cares about you and your understanding of social issues. 6- There is nothing wrong with being religious. I am a Muslim, but I advise you that when you go to Church, relax and feel that you are there for God's blessings. Even though God is everywhere, but going to Church is supposed to make you feel closer to Him. Try to have some personal and special relationship with God. I sincerely hope that my answer helps you..
2016-05-24 04:25:14
·
answer #3
·
answered by ? 4
·
0⤊
0⤋
having a job is a perfect way to make friends especially in the resturant business because everyone you work with is you and most of the time they go out and party afterwards and you could join them. its a start
2007-02-21 10:10:10
·
answer #4
·
answered by sweet_angel_love_83 1
·
0⤊
0⤋
ever thought of going to a club or hangout where bisexuals and homosexuals congregate?
if you want to meet people, you need to speak up and start conversations....or you can join a social group, an adult class, any place or anything where people gather.
2007-02-21 10:13:36
·
answer #5
·
answered by ? 7
·
0⤊
1⤋
Sweetheart, you just made a friend. Look at my profile and e-mail me. Singles are made to mingle even if it is just for friends. Hit me up. I am 24yrs old single with no kids and divorced.
2007-02-21 10:10:09
·
answer #6
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
1⤋
Most people enjoying talking about themselves.....ask interesting questions and pay attention to the answers......and friendships will follow.
2007-02-21 10:09:11
·
answer #7
·
answered by daljack -a girl 7
·
1⤊
0⤋
how sweet, a 2 year old daughter :)) i guess u can sign up to dating sites, myspace, yahoo360 or u can try to email ppl on here. u can send me message if u want to..
2007-02-21 10:11:23
·
answer #8
·
answered by ~Mevsim~ 3
·
0⤊
1⤋
www.adultfriendfinder.com
2007-02-21 10:19:37
·
answer #9
·
answered by hardrock2524 2
·
0⤊
1⤋