she is a quiter
2007-02-21 10:00:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she likes to quit
2007-02-21 10:01:15 · update #1
Absolutely not! You should never quit doing anything for any reason except your own. It's not even fair for your friend to ask that of you. If she wants to quit an activity, that's her prerogative, but she has no right to ask the same of you, especially, if she knows it's something you enjoy.
Your friend sounds a bit insecure, and maybe a bit immature as well. I would say to any friend that asked such a thing of me, " If you're the kind of friend to me, that you expect me to be to you, you will understand that I need to do as I wish, just as you do." Life is full of tests between friends. don't let this test drag you under. Do what you love in life, it only comes around once.
2007-02-21 10:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. If you enjoy this activity or club, why should you quit, just because she did? Do not let your friend do your thinking for you. Make your own decisions. What kind of friend can she be if she only likes you when you do what she says? Think. For yourself. It's your life. You didn't tell her to quit this activity, she chose that for herself. You can make choices too and your choices don't have to match hers. Good luck.
2007-02-21 18:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by teacupn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone likes to feel equal to everyone else.It means some try to lift others up.,and some need to drag others down.Do your best to encourage this person even if they do quit . try to get her to work at ANYTHING till she has even the smallest amount of success and lavish on the praise and friendship.On the other hand refuse to cave in to anything less than you are!
WE as answerer's assume this is something socially acceptable
2007-02-21 18:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by Lowell R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her no, you're not going to quit something just because she does. Ask her where did she get the ridiculous idea that you should?
2007-02-21 18:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a quitter?
if she jumped off a cliff, would you follow?
you are your own person, sounds to me that your friend has some insecurities with failure and is looking to make herself feel better by not being the sole person that likes to fail.
your friend needs to learn on her own on how to be a winner through accomplishments and hard work, and foremost...not to be selfish to bring others into her circle of failure for her personal gain.
2007-02-21 18:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoy it do'nt quit and if she is your real friend she should understand but she may continue to pressure you to quit in the future
2007-02-21 18:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_angel_love_83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit it if its like a drug or something, but you shouldnt quit if you enjoy the class or whatever, if you truly dont like the class either you should quit and try something else.=D
2007-02-21 18:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by Gloom and Doom™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if u like what it youre doing u shouldn't quit. tell her that if she wants to quit,she can quit, but u like what youre doing and dont want to quit. dont let other people tell uwat to do, it's your life.
2007-02-21 18:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u can't do everything that your friends do!!! just cause u are friends don't mean you have to be a follower!!!
2007-02-21 18:03:09 · answer #9 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..if you dont want to , then u dont have to!! dont always go where your friends go..
2007-02-21 18:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋