can teel you that it is the biggest turn off and can end a relationship as fast as it began. the nagging is just so horrible. there is nothing like it. it makes you feel like less of a man and is de-masculating. and i think it is sick that a woman want to be "liberated" and strong and independent yet they are the ones who love to nag and "train" there men. i have actualy heard women refer to and make jokes about "training" there man. they think they should be able to train there men like dogs and shape them into the person they want. but then when they finaly get what they want, they realize that the man is so broken and "isnt the man they once loved" and then they move on. ladies if i can just say that all you have to do to be a perfect woman is to make your man feel like a man and respect him. and beleive me he will respect and honor and protect you and. he will do anything if you just make him feel like a man. and if he doesnt give anything back then he's not worth your time.
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dont you agree?? please say why or why not
2007-02-21 09:59:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
bad spelling is much more annoying
2007-02-21 10:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by pollywog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right. Nagging is revolting, and it's not just women who do it. My ex was constantly on my back to change this, do that, I want this, I want that - when he got it, it was never good enough, and he'd find something else to nag about. He was a bit physically abusive at that, but it was the nagging that really wore me down. No-one should be heckled like that, or made to feel like nothing they do is good enough. I think maybe you're over-reacting about the jokes about 'training' men - let's face it, both genders cop stuff like that and it's usually not meant to hurt anyone, it's just a bit ill thought out. But when it comes to the heart of what you're saying, you're right that respect is everything in a relationship, and that you're far more willing to do things for a partner that respects you. I know I am.
2007-02-21 18:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by The Mad Shillelagh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nagging is an unattractive quality, but often men just don't hear us when we ask them to do something- I believe women's lib went way overboard; I believe a man should open doors and take out the rubbish (except that takes him two weeks to get around to doing....and I try not to ask more than twice!) And although women can vote and have equal rights, I do believe men have become emasculated by those women who believe that their rights are above those of men. It's a sad world when the grass is greener on the other side- I love my husband to pieces; I'm a stay at home mum, I cook clean wash...make the beds and love my family- sometimes I just want a little something to remind me I'm appreciated; and he feels the same way. He was married to one of those women you speak of, and honestly, I could have three horns and a parylitic limp, and he'd still want me for the love and care I give him! Women, don't be afraid to be FEMININE and to CARE!!!
2007-02-21 18:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by chikensnsausages 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agreed with the first half but then you said all you have to do to get a man to do anything is to treat him like a man. That's true too, I guess, but that's also training. It's just positive reinforcement. "Wow, you're so strong, I couldn't get that jar open no matter what!" Same thing. He'll be opening jars all over the place. I think a better option is like what you said in the beginning. The person you met in the beginning is the one you want. Same goes for the man. He wants the same woman he met in the beginning.
So be yourself.
2007-02-21 18:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, nagging is awful. Women should know their place in the marriage/relationship. Be dutiful, loving, and above all, respectful. I think I'm one of the few women who still think like this, it saddens me. She should also be modest!
2007-02-21 18:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by Hans 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree nagging is the worst-my cousin does this to her 'fiance', and they've been engaged for about 7 yrs-you'd think she'd get the connection-i think he stays for the kids
2007-02-21 18:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by ksueditz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a nag but my bloke deserves it
2007-02-21 18:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by AnyaNledo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it exactly the same - annoying us with your nagging
Stop complaining!
2007-02-21 18:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes cuz women suk they just dont understand
2007-02-21 18:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, i also hate it when they wont go all the way with u
2007-02-21 18:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by spiderk132 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋