My wife and I enjoy it but she tells me that if she keeps hearing my fantasy, that she may act out on it one night if tipsy. My fantasy is to catch her in our hotel room with her young lover while on vacation. She tells me that I have imbedded that in her head so much with fantasy that it could happen. Do you think she is setting me up to cheat and blame my fantasy? Or is she being honest and that fantasies can effect a woman's head so much that she would think it's ok and a green light goes off if a handsome man flirts with her. What do you think it is and should I halt my fantasy roleplay?
2007-02-21 09:54:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
halt, shes gonna bang some dude younger and better looking than you
2007-02-21 09:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you do is entirely up to both of you, you don't need an "excuse". I have a difficult time understanding how any couple who love and respect each other, could honestly want to see their partner being intimate with someone else. Not only is just another form of "cheating", it's potentially dangerous. There's a huge difference in having a "fantasy", and making that fantasy a "reality". Once you open that door, you can never close it again. Just be very sure you can live with it after you do.
2016-05-24 04:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a yes and no question. Yes I enjoy fantasy roleplay and yes & no it could effect a woman if you keep telling her to take a lover in your fantasy. If your marriage is on shaky ground, I could see a woman making the fantasy a reality. If your marriage is rock solid, no way a fantasy will cause your wife to make it a reality.
2007-02-21 10:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by Momma K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She could be setting you up if she is that type..to cheat. However, it could be that she if feeding into your fantasy and may think that you really would like it to happen. Expecially if you have acted out any other fantasies with her. She may think that you want this to happen..you need to let her know that it is only a fantasy and you have no interest in her fulfilling it.
2007-02-21 11:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, she is probably telling the truth, in my opinion. This is experience talking.
If she is not telling the truth, she saying it either because it turns you on or she secretly really wants it to happen. Maybe she secretly wants it to happen because it does turn you on...
Either way, if you really don't want it to happen, you need to pick a fantasy that doesn't involve another person.
2007-02-21 12:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are having a consistent fantasy she may feel that you really want to enact that fantasy. Maybe you should pick another fantasy.
Really you sound contradictory. It excites you to think about it but thinking about it is upsetting you. Maybe that's normal but it doesn't sound right to me.
2007-02-21 10:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What an idiot. Fantasy and role playing is great. As long as it involves NO ONE ELSE! Duh. You, my friend, are giving her permission to eat another's sausage. Stop the nonsense now. Tell her it is only you, or the highway.
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2007-02-21 10:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋