Should I tell her I want her to move in or will I send her running? She has this job and is going to another state. I love her and want to tell her but if I move too fast she will probly run and if I go too slow she will be gone anyway. What do I do? I can take care of her if she will let me.
2007-02-21 09:52:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you love-love her, or did you decide you loved her when she said she was moving? I think it's important to investigate and reflect on that before making any rash declarations of love and devotion.
That being said, if you want to be with her - TELL HER! This way you will never have to wonder what might have been. Life is too short and unpredictable to keep your true feelings to yourself because of what might happen, or what we envision as a worst case scenario. No matter what you can imagine, nothing is as disastrous as regret. Be bold - tell the girl how you feel - and good luck!
2007-02-21 10:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be truthful with her, or you'll never know, right? You don't need to scare her with big commitment talk, but let her know you really care about her, and maybe she can reconsider moving. That way you've at least been open with her. How she responds is entirely up to her, so don't presume to know. Maybe she's crazy about you too, but doesn't think YOU care.
Honest communication is the single best way to avoid misunderstandings. To thine own self be true.
2007-02-21 09:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You owe it to yourself and her..to let her know how you feel and give her the option to make the decision. If you let her walk away and don't say anything then you will always wonder..what if?? I advise this because you say you love her..keep in mind that if you have any hesitation about your feelings then I would advise against this but if this is love then go for it and good luck!
2007-02-21 10:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her tell before she leaves! At least you can see one another on occasion but if you don't tell her she won't know and she'll be looking for a man where she's going. If you tell her she may choose not to look when she gets there and wait for you instead.
2007-02-21 10:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by normansbro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem, here is what you do, whatever you do she will go away so just get another girl and don't think about her. Forget her. Believe me it helps.
2007-02-21 09:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her go dude ... You'll wish u hadn't ... You;ll realize 1 day she was the truest love you ever had..........U should tell her how u feel
2007-02-21 13:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by htrime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything you CAN do. If she were that into you, she wouldn't be moving.
You don't have to believe me. But it's true.
2007-02-21 10:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel....if you don't give it a shot you'll regret it.
2007-02-21 10:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk and leave it up to her what she wants to do
2007-02-21 09:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋