2007-02-21 09:50:47 · 14 answers · asked by Cassidy S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People change, and so will you. Not everyone you know now will still be the same people around you in the future.
That's why we make every moment count.
But if they're gone, its not always possible to get them back. I'm sure though, that you won't NOT be able to find a friend you can trust. I'm not saying replacing the other friend - I mean move on.
2007-02-21 09:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if any best friend left you for another group of friends there aren't you're real friends, but you need to leave her alone if she chooses to be in a group of trouble you should stay away in your own group cause i might be sure that your group is nice and not mean so why should you follow up her if she chooses to change to a group that is mean, she shouldn't be able to be your best friend, a best friend sticks up for you stands up for u when you are down they care, not move on just to be an acquaintance that doesn't care about you anymore, u you should think about your real friends. best friends are true friends and if she moved on to a bad group to show off or something you should move on to, yeah to a better group of your own you don't need her just think about it, it will soon come to you. Hope you take the advice do whats best for u!
2007-02-21 10:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by sha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that happened to you.
I had a best bud that had been with me ever since first grade but, she too decided later, like in high school, the popular girl was right and ditched us for the popular crowd.
The best way to handle this is too not try to get back at them but, instead everytime you see them be nice and say Hi!
If they want to snub then that is their problem, you are the bigger person for being nice to them and they truely have no reason to be mean to you and if they ever do want to be your friend again, you'll get your friend back and you will still be the bigger person for forgiving them and excepting their friendship back.
Just don't puppy-dog after them, then they will just have excuse to make fun of you and say that you are pathetic.
Of course, you are not, you just want your friend back and don't know what happened.
God bless you!
2007-02-21 10:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by cindy r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Review your own behavior to others.Probably you are the one with some characters that your friends had been tolerating for a while. However after a thorough self appraisal and there is nothing wrong with your ways, just forget that friend continue living your life.
2007-02-21 10:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by Aushbaba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have other friends, if she thinks being with the mean group is "cool" or what ever just let her be. she'll come around if she's smart enough.
you have other friends, dont try to make her be your friend
but maybe you should invite her over and have a talk, to see whats going on, maybe go shopping and talk to her casualy
2007-02-21 10:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sushilove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would call him/her and talk to her. be like i though u were my best friend. and if they say i am. i would say. then why did u leave me for a another group of friends? i thought u cud always count on you
2007-02-21 09:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by N!V3A Ü 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her learn her lesson...usually mean girls make you follow their rules, you can't be yourself anymore..sounds like she'd do anything to be popular! However if to impress her new "mean friends" she tries to dog you out for their entertainment...hurt her feelings and hurt them good...you know a lot about her I'm sure..so put her in her place right in front of her new crew and she will think twice about screwing with you.
2007-02-21 09:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by Sista-Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON! why would you want to spend your time obsessing over what that wh.ore is doing??? You need to realize that you shouldn't waste your life trying to make people who dont like you be friends with you again. Just find new friends. I dont understand why you are sad and not angry. Get over it!
2007-02-21 09:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could see from that, that she wasn't your true friend and you should try to find another friend who will like you for who you are.
2007-02-21 09:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by soccerrocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you found out how close of a friend you really had. so its time to find a new friend ont that will never leave you one who will stay with you.
2007-02-21 09:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by Rob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋