I have a fair amount of friends and all that, however i have so much trouble talking to them somtimes..like i cant think of what to say to them,
I mean people look at me as a very quiet person, people make so much effort to make convorsation with me..and i try and lead on from that..but it will end up just turning to an awkward silence , and its starting to annoy me,
I can talk to my very close friends fine..and all that..but its others , i find hard to talk to them , so i end up just not hanging around with them..which makes it hard when ur trying to get to know sombody better.
Does anybody have any suggestions for me ?
Is it possable for me to get better at this type of thing ?
Am i just an anti-social cold hearted person lol ?
Thanks.
2007-02-21 09:45:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no babe u r not a cold hearted person. well maybe u just dont really know wat to talk 'bout when u do talk to people. and the awkward silence thing happens to alot of people so dont freak out... if u want i can be your friend...(im kinda like you in a way)
2007-02-21 10:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by killakaren♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not cold hearted, I am sure you are a lovely person. People, as a general rule, like to talk more about themselves and what they are interested in. Also, take an interest in things going on in the world around you and you will have more interesting things to talk about. The most important thing to remember is that others love, love, love a good listener!!
2007-02-21 17:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by nin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just complaining to much. I mean talking to some one is like well waching TV. you do not have to do much to wach a TV as long as you have the rimote you can do any thing. so when there is some one to talk to you say something that would make them talk more and look like you are intrested and are listening deply. BUt well I must have to say just say what ever you think they will undestand I mean people might not get the thing that you do so try to be a bit flexable
2007-02-21 17:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyness is a burden that is hard to overcome... join the drama club, speech, debate something will force you to interact on a different social level than what you are involved in now... having to think and speak ad lib if you will... will really help.
2007-02-21 17:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by julianna76301 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat at you... everything you wrote is all the same with me... if you want, you can e-mail me sometime and I'll write you back :)
(I'm a nice person, just people interpret me as a b*tch only becaue I'm really shy and keep to myself a lot)
⥠Christina
2007-02-21 18:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to me on yahoo messenger
bubblegum_princess1114
2007-02-21 17:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jaqueline A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋