Okay, well my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 1/2 months and we are both 14. He claims that i am too "prude" and that he is ALWAYS the one making the first moves whether it's calling me, or being the first to kiss me yaaadi yada yadaaa. he says that im not very "touchy" (not sexually) but just like he is always the one doing something first and that when we cuddle he has to like pull me to lay on him or something. from other questions like this ive heard that guys just do that as a mind game for you to pretty much have sex with them, but i dont think that's what he means.. ? so what should i do to be less prude just so our relationship is better and we are both happier ? THANKKS !
2007-02-21 09:45:12 · 6 answers · asked by ashley r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Mind Game, yes. Tell him to back off. It's your feelings, your body. You do what you feel comfortable with. He don't like it, lose him.
Ps: You'll be dealing with jerks like that for
a long time. best learn how to deal with it now!!!
2007-02-21 09:51:09 · answer #1 · answered by redman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
careful! the only thing the guy wants is sex! im 14 too! just you kiss him first out of no where
2007-02-21 17:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX and quit thinking everyone is watching you. Do NOT have sex with him, if he insists DUMP THE CREEP
2007-02-21 17:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by ma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would it kill ya to give the boy a hug now and again?
2007-02-21 17:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by nin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had a boyfried just like you. it's not that ur prude. it's just ur shy. that's wut i told my b/f. just talk to him and say. baby, it's not that im prude or anyhting, it's just that im realllyl shy aroudn teh guys i reallllllly like. =] and hopefully he'll still loveyou <3333
2007-02-21 17:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by N!V3A Ü 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what is most comfortable for you. Don't let your boyfriend bully you.
2007-02-21 17:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋