2007-02-21 09:17:32 · 24 answers · asked by Nevin J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best way is to just out and tell her
2007-02-21 09:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kayle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you mean you want a threesome with your wife and another woman, then say so... by claiming you want a "girl" you sound like a total pedophile. Ewww.
You might want to warm your wife up to the idea of "exploring sexual horizons" first, instead of leaping straight to threesomes. You're essentially telling your wife that she isn't enough for you, that you want to cheat on her... not just with her permission but while she participates! It's doubtful she'll be crazy about the idea at first. You have to reassure how much you love her, and explain why you want to try something new. Be honest and kind, or be prepared to spend a lot of nights on the couch.
2007-02-21 09:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes these kinds of things work for couples... you might want to test the waters first and see if your wife would even *want* to have a threesome with someone else, let alone another woman.
It's also not a good idea to already have a woman picked out. Definitely not.
2007-02-21 09:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by bitchgyrl420 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she has ever been curious about being with
another woman...
Ask her what she would think about having a 3some with you.
3somes are the safest multi-partner situation..
Never ever have another couple or man in your bed...
It is usually best for the wife to invite the other woman and
the man should never contact her outside the bedroom...
2007-02-21 09:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ahhh...stupidity at its finest.
Some fantasys are best left in your head. That is where you can control what happens, and the outcome. In REAL life, emotions come into play, and THAT is where the trouble and hurt begins.....good luck to you if you go through with asking your wife this- my man would be out the door.
2007-02-21 09:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a good idea, my brother and his ex-wife did that, (emphasis on "ex") she is now really whacked out and needs some mental help and my brother luckily has custody of the kids. And my brother wasn't the one who initiated the idea. Lots of awful things can happen especially when you open the doors to that kind of drama.
2007-02-21 09:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by Vegas 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be up front about it. I don't think that beating around the bush will get you a different response. If she's interested, then she's interested.
However, when approaching her with this, assure her that you fantasies have nothing to do with her being inadequate! This is key!!!
2007-02-21 09:22:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious and you believe that it is something you would both enjoy just ask her. Ask her if she's ever fantatsized about it, be sensative. How would you feel if she confessed she's fantasized about a threesome with another man? Again, try to be sensative and open. Don't pressure her to do it.
2007-02-21 09:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by Euphoria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that is what you truly want come right out and tell her, she deserves to know that. But my friend, you may want to have a bag packed for a hasty departure just in case. tvtop_toptv
2007-02-21 09:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Marsh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask. You need to be honest and respectful if she says yes then great it's something you can discuss together if she says no then drop it don't bring it up again it's not worth it.
2007-02-21 10:55:17 · answer #10 · answered by rubber ducky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋