My marriage was very rocky and stressful. Without giving alot of details, we were both anxious to separate and move on. I like being "single" but at times would like a little male companionship....(not just sex).
Am I wrong to want to date? Is it too soon. Eventhough we just separated, the last 2 years together were hell.
2007-02-21 08:20:55 · 20 answers · asked by answergirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had a new partner about 3 months after but i had been unhappy in my marriage for 2 long years and i didn't want to miss my chance with my new guy (i had known my new partner a while before we got together) i don't regret a thing. Only that i didn't leave my Husband sooner.
2007-02-21 08:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by Daniella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always suprises me to see men and women jump right into new relationships soon after breakups. I have heard of getting right back on the horse, but it just seems like the new relationships are doomed from the start. My opinion is give yourself time to be single, and enjoy your own company. Greive the old relationship, work out the bugs and lessen your baggage before starting over. I have been single for 4yrs and still don't think iam ready. Thats just me I know. If you really feel your ready to give your best self to someone then go for it. You deserve happiness.
2007-02-21 08:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe that you even have to ask this question.
The right time to start dating is when you are DIVORCED!!- When the divorce is FINAL. Until then it is Adultery.
If you need a man that bad, then tell your attorney to make it as quick and painless as possible so that you can move on to your next man.
When I filed for divorce, it was done in about 45 days. Of course my motivation was not to start dating again, but still.
2007-02-21 08:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would remain single and learn about yourself. Often times people go from one relationship to another and repeatedly end up the same negative situation. Be single, have fun, make friends, excel at school or work and figure out where you want to be and then you will know the type of man you want.
2007-02-21 08:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by Cdub 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep. You need the big divorce papers first. It also will help you to detox from that nasty relationship. Don't carry your hurts and negativity into the next relationship, no guy deserves that. Wait a bit, be someone that any guy would want. It'll just take some time.
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2007-02-21 08:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will possibly be able to desire to proceed doing issues the main suitable way. in the top, you would be the winner. there is not any longer something like ageing and searching lower back on your existence and having no regrets. Your ex might have a lot and could fairly sense the effect of his strikes and behaviour. as far as advertising the elk head or the rest he's left is in touch, i might ask somebody respected with a criminal history. remember, do issues the main suitable way...and CYA (hide your a**).
2016-10-16 04:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand the need, but one really needs to wait until the divorce. I have been here, and did date during separation.
2007-02-21 08:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems like the separation was mutual. your life can not just stop. you have to keep moving forward. you need mental and physical stimulation that you have lacked for some time it seems. do not deprive yourself any longer. if there was the slightest chance of reconciliation, i would say wait. this is not the case so you should do whatever makes you happy right now. live your life to the fullest and don't let it hold you back any longer.
2007-02-21 08:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by d. w 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A seperation is NOT a divorce. With a seperation you still LEGALLY married, you really have no business dating until you get that final decree of divorce, any sex with other partners is simply adultery since you are still LEGALLY married.
2007-02-21 10:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you when you want to date. I would say as soon as youre legally seperated you can do WHATEVER you want, but I would not jump into anything too soon after the seperation. But legally, nothing can happen to you if you are seperated. you do not have to wait until the divorce is final.
2007-02-21 09:05:47 · answer #10 · answered by Tink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋