Ask your mother if she had the chance again, would she abort you?
Was it her choice...or was it your life?
2007-02-21 08:12:25 · 9 answers · asked by LovePinkPuffies 3 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
My mother doesnt believe in abortions, and doesnt like to make any of us feel as if she didnt want us or that her life would some how be better if we werent born. I have gotten her to admit that her life would have been more successful, both emotionally and financially. (My dad is a real a**hole) So basically my mother got the short end of the stick for deciding to have children, and deciding to put those children first by doing what she thought was best, which was staying married to a verbally abusive alcoholic. I wish for my moms sake that she never had any of us, that way she could have had a more fullfilling life. So I guess your little rude question backfired!!
2007-02-21 18:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to let all of these Insurance Companies and the bill collectors know that you was covered with Insurance and give all of them the names of the Insurance Companies you was or are covered under. You also need to tell them your Mom was lieing to them the whole time and let them take care of the situation. If the harrassment continues with the bill collectors, go and talk to a lawyer about all of this. It usually doesn't cost anyone a penny to go and talk to a lawyer for the first visit. Honestly, that might be your best bet is to just let a lawyer handle all of this in the first place. See if you can get a lawyer to handle your case as a Contigent Case which means if it goes to Court, your lawyer gets 40% of what you win and you get the other 60% of what is won. Or that's the way it is in Texas. I'm not sure where you live so the percentages might be different. I can't believe your Mom would do this to you. I'm so sorry that you got to the point of suicide. Just try to remember from that or this day forward that nothing or no one is worth ending your life over. I thought about it once after I had lost both of my parents and had no other family I associated with at all. It was so hard and I didn't have anyone except for a few so-called friends that aren't really friends. I'm always there for them but when it comes to me, they are never there. That sort of thing. But don't pay a penny on anything. Go and talk to a lawyer. Let the lawyer take over and hopefully everything will get straightened out once and for all and your Mom will have to pay alot more than she ever realized. It's so sad and I'm sorry your Mom did you this way. You need love and support-not lies and deception. Hang in there because things will get better. I know, believe me. I wish you the very best and will be thinking about you. Take care.
2016-05-24 04:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother was never married to my biological father--she became pregnant with me in 1972 (I will be 34 on Tuesday). She was living in Michigan.
My grandmother asked her if she wanted to go to New York for an abortion and Mom said NO WAY. She wanted me from the moment she knew she was going to have me.
She has told me that she made the right choice in letting me live.
Everyone has the right to make a choice--the real question is, is it a valid choice? Abortion is NEVER a valid choice!
2007-02-21 09:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can't ask my mother as she's no longer here but knowing her views on abortion (and her love for me) I can confidently say she wouldn't have opted for an abortion. Incidentally I did once read about a woman in Holland who opted for a hysterectomy but found a year afterwards that she was pregnant. She decided to have an abortion and yet five months later in the middle of a netball game she went into labour and gave birth to a premature little girl. Thinking of that reassures me that each of us are meant to be here.
2007-02-21 08:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by zbak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure if she didn't want me she would have send me to an adoption agency, but abortion was never a choice for her.
2007-02-21 09:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by jayden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother would most certainly abort you.
2007-02-21 23:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by Akkakk the befuddled 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was her choice...she chose not to (obviously). I'm grateful for my life, but if she had, I would never know the difference, right?
2007-02-21 09:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by wendy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the doctor told her she couldn't have kids... I'm here... i almost killed her.. lol with me asking her she would say mylife is better.. but deep down i feel she would of aborted me maybe it was her free ride!
wow my past life was messed up!
but i'm glad she picke me to live.. but even if i wasn't planned! i'm gladd i popped out! :)
2007-02-21 09:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was planned. but my mom does regret marrying my father, so if she didn't i wouldn't be here.
was it her choice [to marry my dad] ... or was it my life?
i say, her choice.
2007-02-21 08:24:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋