sorry spell check is not working i apologize for my spelling,
my husband and i are very happy and extreamly close as a couple, we talk for hours together, about everything, our desk are side by side , we have a tv in front of us , im on Q&A, and he is playing flight simulator, our dogs are at our feet and we still act like we are on our honeymoon most days,
now dont get me wrong, we do argue from time, but we end up feeling so bad about it we cant continue, my husband has a great sence of humar and its usually a silly face or a funny remark and we are back to normal,
i think our relationship works so well is besides the fact we love each other so much is due to communciation, trust, and respect, and with our hectic work scedule and very long hours, we treasured all our time together even our little calls back and forth during the day,
we respect each other and help each other, our intrest are different and we accomadate each other, i attend this with him and he will attend that with me...we do little things for each other all the time, picnics in the house on a rainy day, he would have the house cleaned from top to bottom if i am in town shopping, helps with the dishes or clearing, have a bath ready after a hard day, visa-versa, things that come from the heart and not the wallet, without ever asking,
10 years ago i was diagonos with a brian tumur and there would be no regret if i did not recover, as we lived every day before and after that, no differently , thats another reason i always say smile one size fits all life is to short and if something ever did happen, you will know in your heart the lasts words were goods words of love and kindness...
we have been together 21 years, and married for 20 this oct, some who know us, will say i have this relationship because i cant have childrens, so we are pretty free to come and go as a couple, but i know many couples with children that have the same type of life, but the time together is as a family unit, my sister is a good example, been married 15 years, with 4 children, and they have the same life but do things together as a family unit, they are involved very much in each others hobby and our a very happy tight knit family, and those who know me, know my sister, so they know its possiable,
granted i also know how very lucky we are, my husband wanted to marry on thanksgiving day to give thanks for me being in his life, for me i think i am the lucky one......sounds mushy i know but it is very true, and you asked,
2007-02-21 08:41:19
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answered by dragonfly2dreams 3
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