If not, please reference. THanks.
2007-02-21 07:46:44 · 26 answers · asked by jazz41 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't want him. Just the physical stuff.
2007-02-21 07:54:17 · update #1
I see no references.
2007-02-21 07:54:34 · update #2
Where does it say vice versa?
2007-02-21 07:56:02 · update #3
I was married before but he died. Is it still premarital?
2007-02-21 07:56:47 · update #4
Does the bible say wife(husband)? No.
2007-02-21 08:00:02 · update #5
If you go by that logic, you are just as sinful because sex outside of marriage is wrong too.
2007-02-21 07:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking such a question infers that you feel that it is wrong. Trust you instincts. If you are looking for a serious relationship with him, think about what he is doing to his wife by having the relationship he has with you. If you want references from the Bible then you are just wanting validation. The bible would be a nice reference if it were set in todays times. If you look at the jewish tradition of the times, marriages were arranged by the families for the advancement of social status. It was understood that the marriage was not romantic and that either person had "something on the side" so to speak. Marriage today in America usually is based on romantic relationships. I do have one reference from the Bible that should be pointed out to you. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. You know, the golden rule? If you were married, how would you feel if you were being cheated on?
2007-02-21 16:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by hrld_sleeper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only the married person is committing adultery, however you would fall under the commandment "Thou shall not covet thy neighbors wife (husband)"
You are both in the wrong and like everyone else has said, premarital sex is also a sin. So go find a nice single guy, get married and then have all the non sinful sex you can.
2007-02-21 15:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by littlemama_rules 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You are just trying to find some justification in what you are doing. you need a refernece, how about the commandement, not sure what number, but the one that states, Thou shalt not covet thy neighbors wife, the one that says, Thou shalt not commit adultery. YOU KNOW what you are doing is wrong. That man DOES NOT belong to YOU. Even if he gives you the right to do it, you should refuse it. AND YOU KNOW IT! I am a woman whose husband just had an affair. This woman KNEW he was married, with kids and get this, he NEVER told her we were separating, or divorcing, it was only sex. This woman took and took from me for months what didnt belong to her. Why would anyone want what doesnt belong to them. LEAVE THAT MAN ALONE AND GO GET YOUR OWN! YOU WILL BE NOTHING BUT A HOMEWRECKING WHORE.
2007-02-21 16:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say you are both in the wrong, call it whatever you like, but he has a woman he has committed himself to, and if he no longer feels that way about her he needs to deal with her before he opens up his life to another woman.
Is this really the kind of guy you want to be seeing anyway? Look what he is doing to his wife, whether she knows or not, what if the tables were turned and it were you he was married to and your husband was seeing another woman who was asking the question you are?
2007-02-21 15:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are actually trying to justify having an affair with a married man by using the bible. People like you are what is wrong with this world!
2007-02-21 18:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by vickyc76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm, you are a "home wrecker" if you are looking for a lable for yourself...
The Commandments
1
I am the LORD your God, you shall have no other gods before me. Faith (Trust in God)
All faith in God, freedom from lesser gods: wealth, sex, power, popularity.
2
You shall not take the Name of the LORD your God in vain. Respect
Holiness
Respect for God and the things of God: prayer, worship, religion.
3
Keep holy the Sabbath day. Renewal
Not just the Sabbath rest, but setting aside time for prayer, good recreation, quiet reflection.
4
Honor your father and your mother. Family
Loving care and respect for all family members, elders and younger siblings, too. Respect for elders in general.
5
You shall not kill. Respect For Life
Courtesy to all, speaking respectfully to all, seeking the best for all. Respecting others' freedom while still defending all human life.
6
You shall not commit adultery. Chastity
Faithfulness (Fidelity)
Faithful actions beyond just abstaining from sexual contact outside of marriage. Respect for sex and marriage.
7
You shall not steal. Justice (Honesty)
Concern for the rights of others, especially when they get in the way of what we desire. A commitment to fairness and a willingness to suffer loss rather than depriving another.
8
You shall not bear false witness. Truth
A dedication to what is real and true, even if that reality is against our interests.
9
You shall not covet your neighbor's wife. Purity
A desire to want only what God wills. A single-hearted devotion to God's way.
10
You shall not covet your neighbor's goods. Generosity
A cooperation in God's own generosity that sees all goods as belonging to God and freely given for the good of all.
2007-02-21 17:48:01 · answer #7 · answered by jhen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A single woman seeing a married man is a WHORE...plain and simple. It doesn't matter to me what the bible says. Not everyone on this planet (or this board) is a christian.
2007-02-21 18:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are commiting adultery.
Or what, did you skip the chapter where it says:
"Thou shall not desire a man's wife..."
Hmm trying to twist the Bible to justify your sins....
That brings a new meaning to hipocresy.
Good luck
2007-02-21 15:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by Blunt 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
There are no references needed. all you need to do is READ the bible. Adultery is Adultery whether it is mental or physical.
2007-02-21 15:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by SavingCats 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you go by the bible, you are still sinning with the premarital sex.
2007-02-21 15:52:59 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋