O.K. Here it is I am 14 and I have never even kissed a boy! I have a friend who is 1 1/2 years younger than me and way less mature and she has already kissed a guy! Am I loser? Am I immiture?
2007-02-21 07:30:20 · 36 answers · asked by robeangirl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yes ur a loser not because of the kiss becase u actually askin ppl on the internet
2007-02-24 18:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all!
I've never kissed a guy either, I'm 15, but you know, you shouldn't be bothering so much about it. Just wait for the right person to kiss, and it doesn't depend what age you have.
And your friend, she's 13 and she has already kissed a boy. So what? She's not more mature than you are! And you are definitely not a loser compared to her!
Really, don't bother about it, you can't force love, so just wait : )
2007-02-21 08:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. You are not the loser! I am 20 and have never had a boyfriend and never been kissed (yea, I know...). Nothing's wrong with me, I was never interested in dating the know-it-all hotshots or the obviously stupid (which sums up all the guys around here). I'm not worried though. I have friends like me, and one friend that sounds like the girl that you described. She would date& dump any gut she could find, but now she's finally married.
The most important thing is not to get caught up in the whole 'going out' status. If that happens, be prepared for a broken heart and a different reputation.
2007-02-21 08:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by CruelChick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No baby you are not a loser and you are not immature! Just know that respecting yourself and your body is all that matters. I thought the same thing when I was 14 and let me tell you I feel so silly now. Dont worry about what your friends are doing the time will come for you when it is right and if you try to rush the process something might happen that you are not ready for and that type of thing is never good. Just make sure you love yourself before you try to love someone else. Dont worry about what people think of you ( I know its hard) if they cant accept you for who you are then they are not worthy enough to be your friend or boyfriend.
2007-02-21 12:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by bowmanhots 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a loser and you do not have to be immature to not kiss a boy. It is better to wait than get stuck with a jerk. I was younger than you when I first kissed a boy but looking back I wished I hadn't because it was peer pressure and the guy turned into a total jerk when we broke up. Enjoy your youth...stop worrying so much about the opposite sex.
2007-02-21 07:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by Army Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. And no. Don't worry about that stuff for a few years....by then, maybe some of the guys will have caught up to your level of maturity. Do you honestly, really want to receive a kiss from a sloppy 14 year old boy? No one knows you've never sucked face, plus there's always that special je ne sais quoi about a girl that's never been kissed. ;) Don't worry about it...you'll get one soon. Think of it this way - not kissing decreases your chances of getting mono and meningitis! =D Save it for someone special, who you actually want to kiss.....it's almost like a virginity....but less...extreme.... =P
2007-02-21 09:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a loser for not kissing a boy! People have their first kiss at different times. Your friend was probably had someone she really cared about. Don't kiss a guy so you can be "cool", kiss someone because you love them.
2007-02-21 11:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Emily♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you're NOT a loser. Why would you even think that. Why would you want to be like your younger, immature friend? She seems like shes on her way on becomming a $lut. Trust me, you will get plenty of chances with boys as you get older. Just keep your focus on school for now.
2007-02-21 07:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_truth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knwo how you feel, im not 14 yet, im 13 and iv never kissed a boy either,but dont worry your not a loser.
2007-02-21 12:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by Janelle S. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your not a loser so what if you never kissed a boy. Its okay because when it does happen its going to be beautiful.
2007-02-21 09:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by Olivia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋