o.k i need some more advice. I like this boy and, i told my "best friend" that i like him?

Question

at the time, she didnt know him. But after i told her how i felt about him, they became very close. Now she has his phone number, his myspace and his adress. Plus she hangs out with him on the weekends. How do I tell her how I feel. I think it would be better if he approached her, but she approached him. And that was so messed up because i had just finished tellling her my feelings for him :(

Answer 1

Your friend is a *****. Sorry but she is. I know exactly how you feel, I get that alot form my "so-called" friends. Just pretend that you're interested in someone else and she'll probably give up on the boy you like because she thinks that you're not interested. Then make your move and tell him how you feel. It usually works. But if it doesn't, move on and find someone else. I know that's hard but you can't make your friend stop seeing him. Good luck and I hope he goes out with you and not her.

Answer 2

Sorry I'm abit confused with your question but I'll try my best to answer it anyways ok... this mate of yours knows how you feel about the guy is that ryte? And she went and told him is that what u meant? if so.... There isn't awhole lot you can do.....because he knows how you feel.. just tell your friend straight up how you felt about what she did they same way she told the guy how you felt. Be straight up with her thats the only way. I mean I had a situation where I liked this guy and I wanted to get know him abit more and I had made a friendship book (This was when I was in high school so that was a couple of yrs ago) anyways and I got one of my fwends to get him to sign it and arnd lunch time she came back and it was full frm top to bottom and I was stoked until I looked closely at the writing and realised it was my friend's writing not his....(cause I recognised her writing and I confronted in a not so polite manner and stormed off) and anyways.... to the story short I was ready to cut my friend off because of that but later that day I talked to her again and now we're still good friends. So tell her how you felt and if she doesnt care well then yknw what to do.... she wasnt your friend to begin with... Plus I think she's only with him to make you jealous but gurl.... like they say "there are plenty of fish in the sea" Go catch him

Answer 3

OK heres how u should do it.Go to her house and ask her if she has some feeling about him.If she says no and asks u why are u asking that,u aski her why is she always hanging out with him she says that they are just friends,u get into her face and tell her to keep her paws of because u don't believe her because she approached to him
If she says yes in your first question,u ask her why does she hates u so much because she knowes that u like him.If she says that she liked him first or something stupid as that,u just walk away i find another guy who is more hotter than him.If she says that she liked him when u told her that u like him,that is just jealousy and u don't need a friend like that.

Answer 4

Your friend is messed up for hooking up with this gentlemen when you told her that you liked him. Talk to her about this situation and tell her openly and honestly how you feel. Friends shouldn't do this kind of stuff behind each other's backs and she shouldn't have done that! There are plenty of guys out there that would love to go out with you. He will not be the only guy that you will like in your lifetime. What goes around, comes around so in the meantime, focus on what's really important in life such as getting an education and keeping your head in those books. From now on, don't tell your friend who you like. Keep it to yourself. I hope this helps. Best of luck.

Answer 5

If he's a "jokester", merely walk up and communicate for a lengthy time period to get tender, gently play-punch his shoulder and say "you know what?" he will likely reply "what?" and the you're saying " you're wonderful!" and promises an assuring smile to make positive he would not imagine you're determined with a pleading smile.... lol (i know... difficult) and kinda walk off right into a collection an start up talking :) LOL wish all works out :)

Answer 6

Maybe it is time to reevaluate the friendship you supposibly share with her. If you confided in her, and she jumps on your piece of meat before you get a chance, even if it was his first move, that is not a true friend. But then maybe they are schemeing on how to hook the two of you up. The best thing to do is to talk to her, heart to heart, tell her how you feel about it, and see what she has to say. Maybe you'll find out that you don't even like him to begin with, and there's someone else you'd rather go after.

Answer 7

Hi doll if your friend was any friend to u she would put a good word in for u. Why dont you try and chat to this boy yerself but at the end of the day he might like your friend over u and that cant be helped, dont be falling out with yer friend over a boy, there r plenty more fish in the see, good luck doll take care xxx

Answer 8

u need 2 get in her face about (dont start a fight with her though, unless u want 2) but u need 2 b assertive and tell he how pissed off u r. That was real jacked up what she did, and u need 2 let her know what's going on and how bad ur feeling were hurt.

Answer 9

You have to tell ehr what you feel. If she's trying to get him knowing that you like him, too, then she's not your friend. You gotta tell the guy that you like him as well. I think your friend wants him so bad so that you won't get him. It can be jealousy.

Answer 10

wow..well if she's ur bf,,then she'll understand and "back off" ur man..haha but seriously i would be mad if she started doing that RIGHT after u told her how u felt about him.. I sujest u just talk to ur friend again and ask her why's she's doing that..