My friend asked me to come to karate with her so she wouldnt be alone so I went and didnt enjoy it at all. My friend really enjoyed it and I told my friend that I liked it and I would come next week but the truth is I really didnt want to. And today when she asked me if I would come to karate I said I would because I didn't know how to tell her that I didnt like it. When the time came I really didnt want to go so I thought about what to say when I rang her up because she told me to ring her up if I wasnt coming. I thought about for ages and finally decided to tell her the truth so I rang her but her dad picked up the phone and told me that she'd already left, I told him to tell her that I was going to quit karate and now I feel really bad and I think she'll hate me. I just don't know what to do I really wish I had rang earlier to tell her myself and now I feel really sick inside.
What do I tell her when I get to school tomorrow, I feel like I've let her down big time :(
2007-02-21 07:13:29 · 10 answers · asked by abbi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeh you should have told her earlier, but she'll get over it, just tell her your sorry for not being honest earlier. If she doesn't like, tough! Karate kick her
2007-02-21 07:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by keeley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to say you don't want to go anywhere if you do not like it. If people get into a strop it is their problem. It's a shame you couldn't have told her straight away though, It is annoying when people say yes when they have no intention of going and let you down at the last minute unless it is with good reason.
At least you gave it a try, we all have to compromise sometimes. Explain to her that you thought it through and you feel bad about letting her down, but you are being honest, it is not for you.
Never feel pressured about going somewhere if when you say yes, you are thinking of a reason to get out of it! We've all been there (both sides!)
2007-02-21 09:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by Thia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear abbi, ,just be honest and tell your friend that you did'nt enjoy karate very much and you are sorry you did'nt say sooner.
Maybe if your up to it you could support her by going as a spectator,take a magazine or something if you wish.
This way your friend still gets your support,but you don't have to do the karate yourself.
Apologise to your friend and i think it will soon be forgotten.Good Luck.
2007-02-21 11:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Tony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody makes mistakes, at least you are being honest so I don't think she'll not forgive. She'll be dissappointed but she'll get over it. i think she is your friend and she'll understand that you were bored.
just tell her that you are sorry. you didn't mean to fail your promise or to ring her late. it's just karate and nothing else so she won't get that mad at you.
good luck
2007-02-21 07:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by b-ball rooky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need t tell her that you dont enjoy it I'm sure she will understand, shes your friend and I'm sure that she wouldn't want you doing something that yo dont get any fun or satisfaction from she will make friends with other people there and wont feel alone when there.
2007-02-21 07:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are friends does not mean you have to like everything the other does. It is cause you have different interests that make your friendship good as you have different things to chat about. I am sure she will understand
2007-02-21 07:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told her the truth and that would have given her time to find someone else. To remain friends you need to apologise to her and be truthful in future
2007-02-21 07:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're sorry, but at least you tried to help by going once.
2007-02-21 07:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by Well, said Alberto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that she'll understand. You obviously care about her and her feelings and I'm sure that she'll see that. Don't worry :)
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2007-02-21 07:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋