If you don't want to be stared at, why do you dress like that?

Question

You're out at the clubs wearing a super short skirt and a top that reveals most of your breasts, and you've got the nerve to say
"What the hell are you staring at???"

Answer 1

I'm with you on this one forest.

Women, yes, it's the new millenea, but I think that it's just common sense that if you wear something skimpy, see-through, revealing, skin-tight or otherwise....you're advertising. You're saying "look at me!" And don't give me that crap about respect or that you're just dressing the way you want and like to. You know what you're doing, so stop acting like you don't when the scary guy is staring at your **** instead of the hot guy you hoped to attract.

Answer 2

You're an idiot. Women dress for women. It's competition to see who looks the sexiest or classiest, depending on the occassion...sometimes to be the fanciest. Although we don't mind the occassional gawkerwe would appreciate it if you were a little bit more mature and subtle about it. Maybe don't stick your eyeballs in the cleft of our breasts or kneel down and see how far up our skirts you can see. We know men admire the female form...but come on now...nobody likes an obvious perve or an inexperienced man-boy who doesn't know how to behave around a woman. Only a man who can be cool and forward at the same time, who lets us know he likes how we look without trying to pinpoint nipple location will get the callback or the dance or whatever it is he's after for the moment.

Answer 3

i resemble that remark...
oh wait... I'm a guy.

seriously... they are not dressing for you mate.. they are dressing for guys better looking than you..right ladies??
now... even good friends have told me they dress for themselves!!! and.. sometimes for their girlfriends.. that is mostly crap.. although some do,and just want to feel pretty, having a fundamental low self esteem.
Personally i feel they dress to get attention from guys that they really think are on the same level as them. (the totem pole of attractiveness scenario))..

setting their sights way higher that they can really get... but if you..seeing how you are pretty plain.and average... give them some play.. then it's eww go away!..

vanity thy name is woman..

look at meeeeee!!! not you... .not you..... OK you!!!... wait..i changed my mind..not you..... not you....

Answer 4

yeah man i was thinking the same thing...only girls here where white little tank tops on days that we have to wash the horses...i work on a ranch...when all the guys start staring they get all mad...they do it on purpose but i don't get it either.

Answer 5

girls that say that are just "trying" to act modest. When it's all said and done they want lots of attention from guys. And they are happy when guys approach them

Answer 6

I can't figure that one out either. Like dave Chapelle says: You know a cop by his uniform, therefore you know a whore from her uniform.

Answer 7

i would love for guys to look at ma stuff n if a male was looking at ma **** then i wouldnt say what the hell u staring at thats for sure

Answer 8

Because you stare like you havent seen boobs before.

Answer 9

I agree with you. anyone who is dressing like that is doing it for attention

Answer 10

it depends on who's staring!